Is it me, or is does this guy have problems?

[Mom2Ashli]

Did he cut the cheese first?

 

[Disney1fan2002]

Oh, she can't definitely try your patience. Unfortunately, she married someone with no patience.

She expects a lot and he has nothing to give.

Not exactly a match made in heaven.

I told her he might get some sick pleasure out of getting away with these things....I was dead serious and she just brushed it off like it's something that's cute...haha, he stole money again, haha....

To each her own, I guess. she doesn't seemed to be too bothered by it. Not much you can do.

 

[tiggersmom2]

Alrighty now....if my hubby left for one week, with no word....he better be dead!

 

[Lyn5]

Alrighty now....if my hubby left for one week, with no word....he better be dead!

Did anyone watch the Everybody Loves Raymond episode where he and his wife were fighting and he hid the cheese in a suitcase? Then he went on a trip and the cheese turned very bad and still they fought on moving the suitcase.

 

[OceanAnnie]

He's weird!

But she must like the drama like you say, otherwise why ask where the food went? Why even fake feeling like you are going "crazy" when past experience tells you differently?

The temper thing is weird over such little things.

Money missing is worse than food. And the lying. And MIA for a week. He sounds weirder than her. (Too weird for me!) But she pushes his buttons and thinks it's cute.

Hate to say it, but it sounds like it could turn volatile one day. Hopefully not.

 

[leighe]

Steals the money to buy some pot, gets the munchies and eats the food and then gets defensive because he thinks she found him out?! lol Ok, I'm bored and that sounded like a possible explanation.

Myst

Well, actually that makes more sense to me than just lying about eating cheese.

 

[DisneyAddict_M]

A hungry lying kleptomaniac?

 

[DisneyPhD]

Not liking your friends DH is a bad place to be. I have a friend who's DH I try to like, but YUCK. She complains to me about him and I think "why do you put up with this guy?" "Aren't your worth someone better then that? Who don't pull this junk on you?" But someone it works for both of them.

We don't talk as much anymore.

Yea, he is loon. If you tell her (and you are right) she is going to hate you and only see what she loves about him. It is kind of like therapy, you could just tell them what the issue is, but if it is going to be effective they have to get it on their own. I had a roomate in college who I loved dearly. She had this abusive boyfriend who she ended up marring. He basicly said she had to stop being friends with me because "I made her think". It broke my heart.

Yes, he is a nut job. He is messing with her mind for whatever reason and that doesn't make for a good marriage.

Sorry for your friend. At least you can see there is something off about this. Mabye someday she will too.

 

[mbw12]

That's what I'm thinking....if he'll lie about cheese....what else will he lie about?

Once, he took off and left for over a week. She had no idea where he was. His phone was off. He claims it was related to this job he had - one of those "marketing" scam jobs that he never saw a dime from.

Even if it was....he just packs a bag on the sly and leaves??

Why can't he admit he ate cheese? That's a problem.

Eating the cheese is the least of his problems...he left for a week and she had no idea where he was????? somethign is wrong in that marriage.

 

[The Mystery Machine]

I bet he's at work telling his friends about the wife that must account for every sausage in the fridge. "Sheeeesh, just the two of us live there, but when food disappears from the firdge, she can't for the life of her figure out where it went".

How did I miss that! Of course he ate it, duh....OK now she sounds looney.

 

[DisneyPhD]

How did I miss that! Of course he ate it, duh....OK now she sounds looney.

I remember when I was 18 my parents were gone on vacation and I was staying in the house alone. I was totally freaking out because I was sure I had some yogurt in the fridge and it was gone. Who ate it? I was alone in the house.

Turns out my older brother came over (didn't live there) and ate it when I was in the shower! I could of killed him!

Oh and there was the time that I got home at 1:00 at night and put my left overs in the fridge. The next morning I got up and they were gone. My father woke up in the middle of the night and ate them.

Belive me things are much better in my house now with my DH and kids!

 

[CherCrazy]

Maybe....he's really really fat and she's monitoring his food intake and he's tired of it?

Whatever the case, OP...you're doing right by your friend by standing by her. Just don't badmouth the sausage snitcher.... she loves him.

 

[poohandwendy]

I think they both sound weird, to be honest. Did you ever wonder if maybe she is the compulsive liar and all of the 'dramatic' stories she tells you are fabrications? I say this because she doesn't seem bothered by it at all. The whole relationship seems odd.

 

[dis ms.]

Well, if she ever decides to leave him, there's a great book out that might help her cope with the change in her life:

 

[OceanAnnie]

 

[luvmy2sams]

At least you have the perfect Christmas gift for them....head down to Hickory Farms and pick up a nice cheese and sausage gift basket.

 

[RadioNate]

At least you have the perfect Christmas gift for them....head down to Hickory Farms and pick up a nice cheese and sausage gift basket.

 

[disneymama73]

Well, if she ever decides to leave him, there's a great book out that might help her cope with the change in her life:

I was just about to post this! It was the first thing that came to mind.

They both sound whacked to me.

 

[luvthatduke]

I think I used to live with your friend's DH.
Are his initials SW??

SW used to do the same things to me,
it took me a while to figure out he was
"Gaslighting" me (you know, like the movie).
He was definitely a loon - he used to light
traffic flares in the toilet to watch the water boil,
and when I smelled the smoke and asked him
what he was doing he'd jump out the window
like I wasn't going to notice the soot in the
now-blackened toilet??

 

[hucifer]

Alrighty now....if my hubby left for one week, with no word....he better be dead!

Okay, that is hilarious.

...and I totally agree!