This is a great thread and I have read every post with interest! I took a trip last September to introduce my 2 little ones (DS3 and DD1) to Mickey. We did not do the dining plan (got an airline employee discount for room only that is not eligible to be a package). I then took an adults only trip in Feb. WITH the
DDP.
I can see how the decision of if the dining plan is a good fit would be case by case, or trip by trip for the same family.
My words of advise for OP on eating with 2 little ones is to plan your ADR's (if you choose this route) for the same time you would eat at home. This worked great for us because we could do a lunch ADR at 11:30am (or as early as they'd let us in) or a dinner at 5pm. This worked great because fewer people are interested in those early time slots. We also made sure we were eating in the park we were at, a nearby resort or our home resort.
Since you have 2 under 3 y.o. you will pay less OOP by eating at buffets (which most character meals are). The kids get to have their pick off the buffet which is a nice chance to get some items other than nuggets and burgers in them. At CS locations we usually ordered 1 kids meal for the 2 to share.
As funny as it may sound, some of our TS meals were home to the best memories - maybe because we were relaxed, in A.C., and enjoying the atmosphere. The VERY best memory of our trip was at the Biergarten. When the Oompa band played my son was mesmerized! He was happily chowing down on sausages and potatoes and dancing in his seat. As soon as we finished dessert we were on the dance floor. We were seated at the beginning of one band set and danced our way through another. We have photos of the kids with each band member!
Having done it both ways, I would lean towards doing the dining plan.
Good luck planning and have a magical vacation!
