We live in Virginia and and have taken the kids to to both Disney World and Disneyland. Our last trip to WDW was this past Feb. and our next Disneyland Trip is this coming Jan.
The Resorts have enough difference it is worth visiting both.
Here a few thoughts I have when comparing the two parks
Ride times: Times seem to be shorter overall at Disneyland, I am guessing because it has more of a locals vibe that if the line is too long people figure they can ride it next time while WDW is more of a visitor from somewhere else vibe and for many it’s their one in a lifetime visit. However WDW has way more rides since they have 4 parks
Restaurants: There are way more (and in the authors opinion, better) options at WDW for table service than Disneyland, that being said I like the quick service options better at Disneyland.
Time: While I could spend 7+ days at WDW you’ll be hard pressed to spend more than 5 (which by the way is the maximum length of ticket you can buy) at Disneyland. Also recreation and activities are non-existent outside of the resort pools if your staying on property. When we visit WDW we do a lot of the activities outside of the parks like mini golf, hanging out at the resort, bike riding, movies under the stars, etc….
Shopping, Downtown Disney at WDW way better than Disneyland, by a lot.
Resorts: while I love staying on property (or used too before all the perks disappeared) at WDW, at Disneyland you can actually get closer to the main gate than Disneyland Hotel or Paradise Pier, places right across the street are probably a little better in terms of convenience. When we stayed at the Disneyland hotel last there was no microwave in the room and the seating was very limited for a family of 4, this next time we are staying at Homewood Suites (on points) that has a full kitchen and living area and even if we were paying cash it would be less than half the price, the hotel is next to the Toy Story parking lot so we can catch the bus over to the park if we don’t feel like walking the 15 minutes to the main gate.
Parks: I love having a Parkhopper at Disneyland while I never feel i get my moneys worth at WDW. I can be in one park at Disneyland see that the line is short for something i want to ride in the other and walk over there no problem. Plus downtown Disney is right between the parks so popping over thier for lunch is just a simple.
Shows and Parades, both have excellent Kiss Goodnights when they are up and running, both have good parades.
Character meet and greets: when the are running like normal WDW has a more structured feel, where as Disneyland they have character meet and greets they also have a ton of characters wandering around interacting with guests, I hope they bring this part back.
I love both Resorts and it is definitely worth visiting both if you are able. While some things are the same at both, there is enough difference that you can’t really say one is better than the other.