Is disney the best place to vacation with disabled child?

KMP12

Mouseketeer
Joined
Jun 18, 2019
Messages
164
We just got back from our second amazing trip. We took our son who is in a wheel chair a few years ago and finally made it back again! Nowhere else we Vacation feels as good as Disney. He is not the relaxing type of kiddo..a week on the beach wouldn't ever happen. He loves to be on the move and ride as many rides as possible. Not to mention the fireworks characters shows ect...it's a bummer coming home because we have never experienced anything like Disney. It's so accessible and he can do anything he wants in the parks and his disability doesn't matter. Most theme parks and water parks are very limited for him. I don't know if we should try and budget for Disney as our yearly trip or if there is something else out there for us..
 
Universal is cheaper and likely the same vibe. I have found cutting magical express is a big deal to me, as I have to handle transport of the chair, like in every other airport. Not looking forward to that for my next trip.

magical express really cemented the special inclusion to me, and that’s gone now. Well, rebranded to Mears now.
 

We just got back from our second amazing trip. We took our son who is in a wheel chair a few years ago and finally made it back again! Nowhere else we Vacation feels as good as Disney. He is not the relaxing type of kiddo..a week on the beach wouldn't ever happen. He loves to be on the move and ride as many rides as possible. Not to mention the fireworks characters shows ect...it's a bummer coming home because we have never experienced anything like Disney. It's so accessible and he can do anything he wants in the parks and his disability doesn't matter. Most theme parks and water parks are very limited for him. I don't know if we should try and budget for Disney as our yearly trip or if there is something else out there for us..
It depends. What types of rides does he do and why are the other theme parks limited? My son does not do the Big roller coasters and thrill rides that many other theme parks have plus he loves the characters so Disney really is the best vacation for him. But if your son loves those types of rides other places may be just as fun.
Universal Orlando has a similar type of disability pass. They also offer front of the line passes for their deluxe hotel guests. I’d love to take my son there but there are not enough of the rides he does.
Disney might be the best choice for your son. You might consider staying off site to cut costs.
 
It depends. What types of rides does he do and why are the other theme parks limited? My son does not do the Big roller coasters and thrill rides that many other theme parks have plus he loves the characters so Disney really is the best vacation for him. But if your son loves those types of rides other places may be just as fun.
Universal Orlando has a similar type of disability pass. They also offer front of the line passes for their deluxe hotel guests. I’d love to take my son there but there are not enough of the rides he does.
Disney might be the best choice for your son. You might consider staying off site to cut costs.


Alot of other roller coasters are so rough and they go upside down so he can't do them. All the rides at Disney seem soo much more gentle. There are only a handful from all parks he isn't able to do and some are because of heights requirements
 
If you all enjoy theme/amusement parks then there is no reason why you can't make them a destination. What I would do is explore others that might have good reviews for those with special needs. We also take DS to Universal but there is less to do there with 2 parks. But they have great hotels that could give you some nice resort days.

I've heard that Dollywood is an excellent experience you might want to explore. Or perhaps save up to go to Disneyland. Not sure his age but would Legoland interest him. But I also think there is nothing wrong with going to Disney each vacation until he maybe wants to do something else. At least you are familiar each trip.
 
We just got back from our second amazing trip. We took our son who is in a wheel chair a few years ago and finally made it back again! Nowhere else we Vacation feels as good as Disney. He is not the relaxing type of kiddo..a week on the beach wouldn't ever happen. He loves to be on the move and ride as many rides as possible. Not to mention the fireworks characters shows ect...it's a bummer coming home because we have never experienced anything like Disney. It's so accessible and he can do anything he wants in the parks and his disability doesn't matter. Most theme parks and water parks are very limited for him. I don't know if we should try and budget for Disney as our yearly trip or if there is something else out there for us..

My son has cerebral palsy and has been using a wheelchair since birth. When he was young, WDW was the best option for annual family vacations. He loved it and it was extraordinarily easy for us to make arrangements.
As he got older and his needs changed, so did his desires for adventure.
We took a winter vacation in Utah, summer vacation in Chicago...... and while he had a great time, nothing compares to the accessibility of a WDW vacation. So guess where we are going this summer? He is now 23 years old still a kid at heart.
 
It completely depends on your individual disability. For the last 14 years we’ve had a kiddo in the spectrum, it has been great. The last trip we took 1 week before the Covid shutdown was our best ever. However, the one we just returned from , Mar2-14, was our worst ever. For our ASD son, WDW has become far too rigid and inflexible for us. D+ was a complete waste of $ the 2 days we bought it for DHS. Wasn’t able to use it once. The ROTR we bought we couldn’t use either. It completely depends on your disabilities.
 
It completely depends on your individual disability. For the last 14 years we’ve had a kiddo in the spectrum, it has been great. The last trip we took 1 week before the Covid shutdown was our best ever. However, the one we just returned from , Mar2-14, was our worst ever. For our ASD son, WDW has become far too rigid and inflexible for us. D+ was a complete waste of $ the 2 days we bought it for DHS. Wasn’t able to use it once. The ROTR we bought we couldn’t use either. It completely depends on your disabilities.

This is SO true. Disney does really, really well accommodating some disabilities, and not quite so well with others.
 
We just got off a Royal Caribbean Cruise and honestly they were incredible with DH in his ECV. When checking in, they directed us to essentially the concierge line and allowed us to check in early since we got there early. Some the ramps when boarding were steep and they offered assistance with those if needed.

The wheelchair seats at all of the shows were honestly the best seats on the house and you had a choice of front of the theater or the back of Orchestra (or whatever they call it on the ship) and they had spaces in the Mean one if you prefer, this is for the main theater. The space for the ice skating show were in the back, but we're honestly prime spots. There were wheelchair lifts down the stairs, so there may have been other options, not sure. This is an area that differs from Disney, they seem to place the wheelchair seats where it is convenient by design instead of where good viewing is, some of the wheelchair spaces on Royal Caribbean were definitely not in spots where the design made it convenient.

Their miniature golf course (which is small as it is on a cruise ship) is also fully accessible, although to reach it requires a lift, but this was on a 20 year old ship, the Navigator of the Seas, so the fact that everything was accessible is incredible. Even areas that normally require stairs to reach, like the Hellipad at the front of the ship had options for wheelchairs to be able tonget to. Although the Helipad itself did require a few stairs with no lift, but had plenty of benches to sit on. And ok sure if there were an emergency they wouldnt allow guests to be there.

On par with Disney was the wait staff in the dining, they of course would park the ECV and bring it back. They would assist at the buffet, the bartenders would carry drinks, even if you were taking them to another venue, although DH has two cup holders, so he didn't need that. And we had the non alcoholic drink package, which includes their tips and there isn't really a way to tip extra aside from cash, but they still offered when we got mocktails, smoothies or other drinks from the bars and had such situations.

The only time We had to wait for the elevators was once after boarding while they did a test and they asked everyone not to use them, then once when there was a security issue and occasionally of we tried to use them right at dinner time we had to use the go up to go down, otherwise the quantity of elevators was more than sufficient for the size ship and they had signs that would tell you what the next stop is so you didn't accidentally get off on the wrong floor if it stopped before you got to where you were going. It is a small touch, but very helpful.

When disembarking, they had a dedicated line and customs window (with about 5 customs agents) just for those with mobility issues so they didn't have to maneuver through the queue. With a ship with about double the number of people of what Disney's Wonder holds, we were through customs in less than 5 minutes and that was only because we chatted with him about Doctor Who.

As for things to do, there is no shortage on their ship and this was one of the smaller ships, if you go with their Quantum or Oasis class ships there is even more to do. I would imagine that there would be some challenges there with getting mobility devices from start to finish of slides and such, but some have bumper cars, carousels, etc. Quantum class have what they call theme parks at sea, Oasis class have Boardwalks and parks.

We had an accessible cabin, which was giant, with a huge balcony that the ECV could get out onto, the closet had a pull down bar that you could hang clothes on. A nice roll in shower, the only issue there was the drains didn't keep up all the time, so there would be water all over the floor. But never reached into the room.

We can't have things prepared with alcohol and their menus actually noted what contained alcohol in most venues, again this is different than Disney. But with Disney you can order the night before and they will adjust the item, so there is a trade off there. But this made lunches much easier on Royal Caribbean than on Disney.

We weren't interested in any excursions, but we did book another cruise and they have an entire department dedicated to helping with accessible excursions and assisting with dietary restrictions on excursions. Disney tends to say which of the standard options are accessible, but doesn't go beyond that usually and as we have learned the hard way will absolutely not work with their providers for dietary needs.


All of this came as a big surprise to us to see how well thought out their accommodations were. So, is Disney always the best? While they rank up there, the answer is no, there are other options out there that may be just as good or even better than Disney.
 
It completely depends on your individual disability. For the last 14 years we’ve had a kiddo in the spectrum, it has been great. The last trip we took 1 week before the Covid shutdown was our best ever. However, the one we just returned from , Mar2-14, was our worst ever. For our ASD son, WDW has become far too rigid and inflexible for us. D+ was a complete waste of $ the 2 days we bought it for DHS. Wasn’t able to use it once. The ROTR we bought we couldn’t use either. It completely depends on your disabilities.

Could you please explain the rigid aspect? My sister is going to WDW next month and is a DAS user, and I’ve told her that how DAS works hasn’t changed, other than being able to get return times on her phone (she’s not doing the online DAS registration).
 
Could you please explain the rigid aspect?
DAS hasn’t necessarily changed. But for those who were used to working the FP+ system throughout the day, Genie+ and I$LL isn’t really comparable with rides that “sell-out” early in the day and return times much later. And the Advanced Selections aren’t changeable, so many folks aren’t able to use them. I can understand how someone feels the current WDW environment isn’t very flexible.
 
I would also imagine that things like needing a park reservation and having to do mobile order for quick service dining, etc. make it generally more difficult to change and adapt one’s plans on the fly, which having a disability sometimes makes necessary.
 














Save Up to 30% on Rooms at Walt Disney World!

Save up to 30% on rooms at select Disney Resorts Collection hotels when you stay 5 consecutive nights or longer in late summer and early fall. Plus, enjoy other savings for shorter stays.This offer is valid for stays most nights from August 1 to October 11, 2025.
CLICK HERE







New Posts







DIS Facebook DIS youtube DIS Instagram DIS Pinterest

Back
Top