Thank you all so much for the opinions and advice. I know that in the mornings going to the crowded breafast areas as like POP was so impossible with the two kids in tow. One of us would have to stay back while the other one got food and then switch and the kids got really antsy in the mean time. My kids are 6 and 3. I don't need any of the planning because honestly we already did all of our ADR's in advance and I wasn't considering club level until now and we leave in 104 days... I was thinking that this might be easier to grab a quick bite in the mornings with the kids. They only eat basics anyway not really too much. I hate that you have to spend so much on a breakfast at the resorts and then they don't even eat half of it. Since we aren't in a villa it is harder to get all the stuff to put a breakfast in the room together, ie, bowls, milk, spoons etc... We don't rent a car because we would never probably use it.
I am so torn... I will probably never stay CL again honestly so this might be the one and only chance, however much like the time we stayed at the contemporary we were truly spoiled by that monorail... hahahaha....
Decisions Decisions!
Well, I have a 3 year old (almost 4) and we were upgraded once and now we can't go back to standard.

They got us: hook, line, and sinker!! Is it worth the price? Ehh...probably not dollar for dollar. However, is it worth the ease and convenience especially with a little one (or two in your case)? Oh yeah!
We stay at the Boardwalk CL and we have been spoiled rotten. Granted, we do get a discount (airline employee) so the price is discounted, but it still is $$ Cha-Ching! I do all the ADR's too so I can't comment on that aspect. (looks like you have those anyway)
I'm telling you, it's just so darned nice to leisurely walk up to the Inn Keepers Lounge in the morning and grab a breakfast of bagels, oatmeal, fresh fruit, pastries or cereal and then head out into the parks. On our way out, we fill our DD's sippy cup with ice and water and we're off onto our days adventure. FYI, they also allow you to take bottles of water to your room for later use. (see, the little things are starting to add up...)
We have never gone during lunchtime, but I hear it is not overwhelming. Basic snack stuff. However, if you do a pool day take some drinks and snacks for the pool! (with you having SB, pool time is probably on your agenda)
After a day in the park we head back to the CL lounge to cool off and relax with a couple of beers, and juice for our DD. We feel we have a nice selection, our personal fave Yuengling. They also have soft drinks and wine too. The appetizers are great, no they won't be a meal, but it is nice to just unwind with a little something. DD loves the crudite, and how can a parent go wrong with fresh veggies for a snack!
In the evening hours we usually just have one parent make a quick stop over and bring back a dessert and cordials to the room while the other parent is giving DD a bath. You are more than welcome to take offerings back to your room. (another very nice perk with kids!)
The convenience adds up, that is why we spend the extra cash. The ease makes it worth every penny to us.
I say...
GO FOR IT!!! 
...you'll always wonder "what if" if you don't try it.

just kiddin'
Honestly though, I know it's hard to spend the cash (Disney is expensive enough) but I think you'll love it. Good luck in your decision making, I know it's not easy taking the plunge. Just remember you can't go wrong either way, YOU'RE GOING TO DISNEY!!!
