I just talked to IPO today for our December trip about a Victoria and Albert's reservation. We just missed a 6 PM, which is what we wanted. (She said they had it and then it was gone.) But got a 5:30.
Anyway, I was told the first seating is staggered between 5 PM and 6 PM and the second from 8:30-9:30 PM.
We passed on the Queen Victoria room but maybe next time ...

I too was worried about my son (very young) being at Neverland Club for a four hour meal, but gotta' admit I'm kind of excited about a very rare date night for me and hubby. (And my son IS excited about the Peter Pan pirate ship.)
Resort decided (finally!), air travel sorted, ADRs reconfigured (made, canceled and changed what feels like a million times) to the Nth degree and now feeling "final", date night established ... beginning to feel like it's not just planning, but we're really actually going. Now the long, 2-1/2 month wait begins.