Good question, as my mom is going to Disney with us for the first time since 1976 (so I almost consider that a first time) - and I intend to do these 5 things with her:
Splash Mountain
Soarin'
Haunted Mansion
Great Movie Ride
50's Prime Time dinner
All great Disney experiences, suitable for a 65 year old woman.
Have you ever seen the original Main Street Electrical Parade, and if yes, how do you think it compares with Spectromagic?