Intermittent FMLA

[TwoMisfits]

Because that's not what the medical professional stated was needed. And, since FMLA is approved for a certain number of hours over a certain period of time, using a full week could leave OP without enough hours approved to take care of needs in April/May.

Please allow OP to decide how to help her husband with his recovery.

It is valuable to Op to know how unprotected her current telework arrangement is. You keep thinking she has protection for her telework hours, but she has now stated she has none. Knowing she wants to be home for the post-surgical days and yet also work should weigh in to her decision making, b/c like all the firms did after Covid (and even Fed Gov eventually did), all telework agreements can be ripped up with enough notice, and all telework WITHOUT agreements can be ripped up IMMEDIATELY. She falls in the latter category.

I think Op should play ball with her company for this event. Doing otherwise has WAY more downsides for Op's future work at the company. And that's all I'll say since Op asked for opinions and for what she didn't know (I doubt she knew how easily revokable her current work situation is).

 

[_19disnA]

My manager is who I talked to yesterday but said that she talked to HR. She said HR and the leave management teams are separate.

My suggestion is that the OP talk directly with HR and whoever this 'leave management team' is and not depend on how your manager interpreted what they told her. Having them put things in writing is also a good idea as someone else suggested. If your manager is saying things that are different from what HR and that other group are telling you, then perhaps having a joint meeting could help to clarify things that don't seem to agree.

Likely you aren't first person in your company to attempt to use FMLA and they already have various policies/procedures on how to implement this.

 

[Snowflakey]

So, they can revoke it at any time? That's actually worse for you.

Maybe.....everyone works remote. I only have to go in a few hours to open mail because the admin person left.

 

[Snowflakey]

No, they can't. Legally. The employer absolutely CANNOT dictate how FMLA leave is taken. If the time one needs off is during in-office time, that's what's taken; if the time one needs of is during telework time, that's what's taken. A person cannot be forced to "show up" in the office just to get approved FMLA time. A work-from-home agreement has zero bearing on one's ability to take FMLA.

EXACTLY!!!!

Just got off phone with case manager with leave management and she said all of what you wrote above (which is what I knew) and she was bothered by what is being said to me.

 

[Snowflakey]

Now that we know she has no telework agreement AT ALL, she can be told that she needs to work 40 hours in office tomorrow and then she'll also have intermittent FMLA granted. She has no protection for her telework since that is only managerially granted with no agreement.

Knowing that, and knowing OP wants 7 more years, I would play ball, b/c OP could have a definite change in work circumstance to ensure appropriate usage of FMLA that would not be wanted.

But I will be using FMLA correctly. I'm doing what is right, for my husband and my FMLA protection. Work isn't going to scare me

 

[Snowflakey]

It is valuable to Op to know how unprotected her current telework arrangement is. You keep thinking she has protection for her telework hours, but she has now stated she has none. Knowing she wants to be home for the post-surgical days and yet also work should weigh in to her decision making, b/c like all the firms did after Covid (and even Fed Gov eventually did), all telework agreements can be ripped up with enough notice, and all telework WITHOUT agreements can be ripped up IMMEDIATELY. She falls in the latter category.

I think Op should play ball with her company for this event. Doing otherwise has WAY more downsides for Op's future work at the company. And that's all I'll say since Op asked for opinions and for what she didn't know (I doubt she knew how easily revokable her current work situation is).

I'm not worried at all about work asking only me to come to the office when 70 others do not need to......

 

[Mackenzie Click-Mickelson]

Maybe.....everyone works remote. I only have to go in a few hours to open mail because the admin person left.

My mom was the only person who knew her job in the company, no one else could do her job because it was down to a specific software that only she had been trained on. It did not stop that company from laying her off during early covid because she was aged 55 and up and had worked for at least 5 years. She was several months shy of 40 years at that company.

But I will be using FMLA correctly. I'm doing what is right, for my husband and my FMLA protection. Work isn't going to scare me

I think the PP is just talking about what can happen IRL. I think companies do shady stuff all the time but it does take someone fighting back either by lawsuit or by making the appropriate complaints to the appropriate department and their complaint being taken care of seriously. I don't know that revocation of your remote-aspect is necessarily the thing to strictly focus about though. But if Leave Management and HR agree you're using it as intended a game of telephone could have occurred with your manager in relaying that to you.

You may want to check back in with your company as you start to use the time since it's for several months. I could see another avenue of reduced schedule could be a way. It's technically under the same umbrella as intermittent in Federal government terms but does fit in with what you mentioned earlier as a scenario of working "I worked from 7-noon and then had to use FMLA to bring husband to appointment." that's if your husband's aftercare from the surgery ends up being a more consistent recovery. Just a thought.

 

[easyas123]

Snowflakey - I'm glad you were able to get your HR people, your manager and whomever else you needed on a call and get it all cleared up and everyone on the same page. I'm sure that goes a long way toward helping you feel better about assisting your husband with his recovery. Good luck to you, and to him. I hope all goes well.

 

[barkley]

EXACTLY!!!!

Just got off phone with case manager with leave management and she said all of what you wrote above (which is what I knew) and she was bothered by what is being said to me.

I'm glad you received information from a source within your employer/within your particular state. if you haven't already you might want to check and see if your state has any payment program for even intermittant FMLA. in the states that have these programs it can be a nice means of at least partially replacing lost earnings.

 

[Snowflakey]

I'm glad you received information from a source within your employer/within your particular state. if you haven't already you might want to check and see if your state has any payment program for even intermittant FMLA. in the states that have these programs it can be a nice means of at least partially replacing lost earnings.

Unfortunately we don't in our State