I must be reading your mind!
(Twilight Zone theme here.)
I was about 16 when I used it. First I was with a big group of girlfriends (it was a slumber party, of course) and one girl was making it move, and making it say things like "lick me" etc.
Later, though, me and a younger girl (14 or so) went and used it. It really scared me. I knew this girl was not making it spell out, because she was a little ditzy. Anyway, it said he had lived in Texas. I asked if he would tell me how he died, and it immediately went to no. I asked why, and it spelled out female. We sat there, wondering for a second, and then it hit me. I said, "You won't tell us because we're female?" Before I finished the sentence, it moved to yes.
That was it. I don't even remember it telling us his name...but it scared me pretty well!!