We buy into "superior" standards and we go to WDW with higher than average expectations. Likely a mistake.
A strange tale from a few years ago. It was our first trip back to WDW after DH passed away on our first visit. We returned to Chef Mickey's. Server was rather, quiet, unsmiling. Me and my kids enjoyed it, but we're remembering our previous trip with dad. Server comes to have me sign the check and brings me a pen from "Chappey's Funeral Home"! I look at the pen, sign the check and I think - "How un-Disney-like!". Server returns, and I tell him briefly our sad story and ask if maybe he wants to get a different pen next time! All the while being my smiling, light hearted self who has learned not to take anything TOO seriously anymore........until....
The server got huffy and tells me that death is a part of life and I'd better get used to it! Goes on to tell me people live and die and what's MY problem!?
Only time I ever got a manager on the way out. He was furious - said there was no excuse for even USING that pen - that servers are GIVEN specific pens to use. Last I saw, server was storming OUT of CM's to points unknown.