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This is an interesting read - not only for what different people's priorities are, but for what they do to take their vacations.
For us, income does play a part. Vacation funds are near the bottom of the disposable income priorities, but luckily we still have enough for what we consider a nice (moderate level) trip once a year, as well as some other minor trips such as long weekends to other locations that we can drive to. A lot of that comes from our income tax money we get back. We probably should adjust the way we file so that the government doesn't get to earn so much interest on our tax money each year before refunding it to us, but we like getting that large check back that we know we don't have to spend on necessities. I have a decent job, which lets me wife stay home most of the time with our 3yo. We have talked about her going back full-time, but we are also close to increasing the size of our family (hopefully), and we figure the cost of daycare, plus the fact that she really enjoys the time she gets to spend with him during the day, wouldn't really make it worth it to us (although, if anyone would like to volunteer to spend a couple of weeks with him while we do the potty training, I'm sure she wouldn't mind
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I know there are ways we could be more frugal throughout the year, but I hate taking my own lunch, and come the weekend, I need a night out with my family for some entertainment. For me, giving up those things during year to stay at a nicer hotel for a week is not worth it. Right now my "second" job is grad school, and my stress level gets pretty high at times, but I guess the little cheap things I do through the year are more important than one really nice thing for such a small portion of the year. I'll be done in the spring, so if that gets me the promotion that I'm hoping it will, then maybe we'll change - but for now we can't have it all. The funny thing is - the only thing about the deluxes that I really like is having the balcony. I like the fact that the moderates are spread out and I like the choices and conveniences of the food courts. Deluxes feel crowded to me when we visit them to use the pools (just kidding), or spend a few days at one (WL). I like hanging out at the quiet pools of the moderates - If only I could figure out a way to bring a portable balcony with us that I could attach. We're deciding between Maui or a Carribean all-inclusive for our 10th anniv./Me finishing school trip, and that's probably where we'll go more all out and free spending (to a point), but that's not a yearly trip type of thing for us.
For us, income does play a part. Vacation funds are near the bottom of the disposable income priorities, but luckily we still have enough for what we consider a nice (moderate level) trip once a year, as well as some other minor trips such as long weekends to other locations that we can drive to. A lot of that comes from our income tax money we get back. We probably should adjust the way we file so that the government doesn't get to earn so much interest on our tax money each year before refunding it to us, but we like getting that large check back that we know we don't have to spend on necessities. I have a decent job, which lets me wife stay home most of the time with our 3yo. We have talked about her going back full-time, but we are also close to increasing the size of our family (hopefully), and we figure the cost of daycare, plus the fact that she really enjoys the time she gets to spend with him during the day, wouldn't really make it worth it to us (although, if anyone would like to volunteer to spend a couple of weeks with him while we do the potty training, I'm sure she wouldn't mind

I know there are ways we could be more frugal throughout the year, but I hate taking my own lunch, and come the weekend, I need a night out with my family for some entertainment. For me, giving up those things during year to stay at a nicer hotel for a week is not worth it. Right now my "second" job is grad school, and my stress level gets pretty high at times, but I guess the little cheap things I do through the year are more important than one really nice thing for such a small portion of the year. I'll be done in the spring, so if that gets me the promotion that I'm hoping it will, then maybe we'll change - but for now we can't have it all. The funny thing is - the only thing about the deluxes that I really like is having the balcony. I like the fact that the moderates are spread out and I like the choices and conveniences of the food courts. Deluxes feel crowded to me when we visit them to use the pools (just kidding), or spend a few days at one (WL). I like hanging out at the quiet pools of the moderates - If only I could figure out a way to bring a portable balcony with us that I could attach. We're deciding between Maui or a Carribean all-inclusive for our 10th anniv./Me finishing school trip, and that's probably where we'll go more all out and free spending (to a point), but that's not a yearly trip type of thing for us.