I'm sad...

[AmandaSparks730]

I'm sad...I don't have a boyfriend. Ok, that sounds seriously shallow. But if you were in my shoes, you'd understand. I'm an only child. Never had many friends up until last school year. I've been lonely my whole life.

Except for 2, all of my other friends have had boyfriends/girlfriends. And well...I get sad seeing all the other people in my HS with BF/GFs. It's like, they rub it in your face when you're just like, not everyone can have that.

I've had a major crush on my best guy friend for quite awhile now (almost a year since I first started liking him), and he knows. He's okay with it. But...idk, I just get really sad seeing him with...I mean, he went out with my BEST FRIEND-TWICE!-last year!

No one's ever really had a crush on me. Only two people that I know of-one is a lesbian and the other is bi.

What is wrong with me?

Anyone want to help me feel better?

 

[Disney.Ears]

You don't need a boyfriend to be happy.

 

[RaggedyAnnPrincess]

Well, I'm not good with advice, but I'm definently here for you! I'm 13, and when all the guys have crushes on other girls, it sucks too. But don't give up! I'm sure if you try hard enough, you can get a guy, maybe many. This is going to sound VERY cliche', but be yourself! Get out there and enjoy life! Yay!

 

[wishspirit]

Ofcourse its ok not to have a boyfriend! Heck i didnt have a real one till i turned 16, my friends still haven't and they are 19!

You dont need some boy to complete you, and girls who think they do are probibly jus worried more about what other people think than actually liking the guy!

You say no one has ever had a crush on you, but you don't know that. My boyfriend had a crush on me for ages before we went out, and i didn't even know until i started majourly flirting with him! You might have a really nice guy under your nose whos too shy to tell you.

Dont feel down about it, just think off all the great things you can do being single: Talk to any guy you want, hang out with your mates without feeling guilty, not have to worry that they are having a good time when you go out. Loads of stuff!

If you want to chat PM me, otherwise i hope you feel better

 

[I'm a Divaaaaa]

I didn't have a boyfriend until my senior year of highschool where I woke up one day (I am not exaggerating in the slightest, this literally happened) and guys were practically throwing themselves at me.

Don't be in any rush. I know it sucks seeig other people being all cutesy and stuff but when your time comes, and it will, it'll make it THAT much sweeter and THAT much more special.

Honestly there is nothing wrong with you. It's human nature. "They" weren't kidding when they said these types of things happen when you least expect them to.

 

[reminisce]

first of all, how old are you? maybe its just because youre still young yet?

second, you dont need a boyfriend to be happy. besides, if you dont show interest in anyone, they may be a little reluctant to ask you out

 

[Stitch&figment 4 eve]

It's alright, coming from a guy, there are probably many that like you. What we talk about isn't too far off of what girls talk about, sometimes. Usually you won't know when a guy likes you untill they do something.

 

[AmandaSparks730]

Awwz you guys are all so sweet!
It's making me feel better
I'm sure there's someone somewhere...
My friend(s) tell me that there is someone out there...I might just not know them. Or, I might not know that they like me.
I'm a freshman in HS, so I still have time. I'm still young. Who knows? 2008 brings new possiblities.

Thank you all who responded to this

 

[pigletgirl]

I know it can be hard at times, but you've got plenty of time to figure things out!! We're here if you feel lonely.

 

[VolleyballQt07]

I don't have a BF yet. And I'm perfectly fine with it! I have way too much to worry about like school and volleyball. I don't have time for a boy!

 

[TinkerbellLuvr7]

I dated the same guy on and off from when I was 7th grade until senior in high school. It was sooo pointless and was fine when my bf had time for me, but he never had money and we never did anything. I would have been better off alone.

After him, I had a bunch of useless boyfriends and made mistakes which now I regret. I found another guy fr. year college who I liked alot and my parents didn't so that ended that one. I then found another soph year who I must admit I still think about all the time but he lived outta the country and graduated that year so well there went that one. After him I dated his friend on and off for almost a yr 1/2 until this past Aug he told me hes "been seeing" another girl and I haven't been with a guy since.

So see..you don't always have to find your prince charming so young in life! I've seen my roommate be totally in love with 4 guys in college..all of which she claimed she would marry some day and never did.

I love the fact that I can say I'm 22 and still single. I like my freedom and I'm open to relationships when they come. I'm not out searching high and low to find that right guy like many of my friends are. You'll learn when your older that the best times you have in life are just hanging out with your girls in college whether they have bfs or not (trust me they are different when they are with their bfs and when they arent in college)

Just hang in there. I was around friends with boyfriends as they came and went and just remember, college is a whole new world and its leagues better than high school!! They say your best days will be in college, and I just graduated in May and can say they are totally right, I wish I still lived in the dorms with my friends and went to bed at 2am cuz we were up talking and watching nonsense TV and eating and not having friday classes. The best is yet to come so hang in there!!

 

[disneychick2721]

I dont have a boyfriend, and honestly dont care.
I have a lot of goals I want to accomplish in my life.

And nothings wrong with you, LOTS of people are single, but you should enjoy the time you have with yourself, I know I've learned a lot about myself.

 

[Thumbs18]

Hey don't worry about it. I know it sux. Trust me. My bf of 7months and I just broke up and it's killing me inside but I know that I'm gonna get over it and one day the right guy is gonna find me. U just gotta wait and give it time.