BCV23, that's just the type of info I was looking for.
We've used DDP twice and found it to be a good value for our family - almost as much for the "all-inclusive" convenience as for the money savings. However, if they remove the tip from it, as rumors are suggesting, I really don't think it will be worth it for us again. Which is extremely disappointing because we were thinking it would make things SO much easier for our upcoming family reunion trip (17 people, 10-14 days) - no hassles with dividing checks, or with sending kids off with different families - as long as everyone has their card, their meals are covered. Now I can forsee problems with who owes whom what for tips, kids' meals, etc

.... But anywhoo... we'll just have to wait & see I guess.
So anyway, I got to thinking about the portion of the trip where just our family of 5 will be alone, and we'll not get the DDP for that, so I wondered if we did DDE during that time (we do like to have a sit-down meal once a day), if it would also be of some value during the other part of the trip too. So it's good to know it includes alcoholic drinks on DDP meals - that could be useful. Also, we were thinking maybe one day DH would treat all the guys to lunch at the Turf Club and I thought maybe I'd treat the ladies to tea at the Garden View Lounge, so if DDE would help with those, that would be nice.
You could use DDE for both.
So, to recap, let me make sure I've got the facts straight on DDE:
Must have AP (Voucher okay?)
Many people have reported being able to order with a voucher....you just give the numbers on te voucher.
Costs $65?
Yes.
Gives 20% discount on most table service meals and a few CS locations, including alcohol, but not tax & tip? (is there a list somewhere of places that accept/don't accept it? Or does a list come with it?)
Right, tax and tip are not included. Many just use that discount as the tip. Of course, in any case one should tip on the nondiscounted total.
You can use it on OOP extras (drinks, etc) during the same meal you're using the DDP?
Yes.
Good for parties up to 10 people (What happens if you've got more than 10? Can't use it? Useable on 10 adult meals? 10 cheapest ie; kids' meals? Other scenario?)
No experience here, sorry.
So if $65/20% is correct, the breakeven point comes once you've spent $325 (which our family of 5 would likely do in about 4 TS meals).
Good for 13 months (From when? Receipt? Activation? First use?)
If you order after around the 10th of a given month, your DDE will expire next year on the last day of the following month. So order Aug. 10, it will expire on Sept. 30, 2008. The folks at the DDE office will let you know when it will expire so if you call on 7/7 you might be told that you need to wait until 8/9 to order for a Sept expiration.
How long does it take to receive in the mail?
I've been told 3-4 weeks. This year I think it was 3 weeks to the day.
Does it matter which spouse's name it's in? Does the person who's name it's in have to be present (ie; if it's in DH's name, can I use it when I take the ladies to tea or vice versa?)
Yes, according to the rules. I do think they check that as most servers seem to take a second and look at both our DDE card and the room key...I assume to see that the names match. By the rules, you could be asked for id so if paying with cash, I would make sure to have id with you.
Anything else we should know about it?