We didn't have a lot of money when we got married, so we just had sterling silver bands. Later, my husband bought me a small diamond solitaire that I wore until our 30th anniversary. On that day, he gave me a beautiful 1-carat solitaire that I wear every day. I am saving the smaller solitaire for my grandson if he would like to have it to create an engagement ring for his future bride. My granddaughter just got engaged. Her engagement ring is a pink heart-shaped sapphire surrounded by black spinels.
I do wear my engagement ring on vacation, but any other jewelry is fake.