If you mom has died

[low-key]

Do you remember your last conversation with her ?


I do, but it wasn't to long ago

 

[Tosie]

Do you remember your last conversation with her ?


I do, but it wasn't to long ago

Yes. She died unexpectedly in March and the last thing she heard me say to her was "Love you."

And I'm sorry for your loss.

 

[low-key]

Yes. She died unexpectedly in March and the last thing she heard me say to her was "Love you."

And I'm sorry for your loss.

my mom also died unexpectedly in March (sorry for your loss also), but what a nice temporary goodbye for you

 

[phorsenuf]

I don't. It was 37 years ago when she died. More then likely I said 'good-bye, I love you' as I headed off to school. When I got home that afternoon she was gone. She had been very sick (pancreatic cancer) and she came home to die.

 

[WDWAurora]

Well, mine is currently in hospice. I really don't remember the last conversation because she has had dementia for years and hasn't really communicated. I kissed her and told her I loved her the last time I saw her, though.

 

[mamacatnv]

My mother is still alive but has severe dementia and is schizophrenic. She has no idea who I am and hasn't for several years. I know our last words were angry, it was always that way.

The "parent" days (Mother and Father) can be difficult. I'm sorry for all your loses.

 

[shortbun]

While my mom was sick, we had many memorable conversations. I loved it! I do remember our last conversation.

 

[Hillbeans]

Yes, I remember it well. It was August 16th, 2003. She died the next day in the hospital.

I had a miscarriage trying for my 2nd child and I told her we'd keep trying for another (we did have a 2nd child, in 2005). She didn't say much just that she was glad we were trying to have another child.

Haven't thought about that in a long time, I sort of try and block it out.

 

[low-key]

Well, mine is currently in hospice. I really don't remember the last conversation because she has had dementia for years and hasn't really communicated. I kissed her and told her I loved her the last time I saw her, though.

Do you ever have conversations were she is alert, our dont that ever happen. Im sorry for both of you, I think thats the hardest illness around, But you sound like a good daughter, if she is aware, she is proud

 

[low-key]

My mother is still alive but has severe dementia and is schizophrenic. She has no idea who I am and hasn't for several years. I know our last words were angry, it was always that way.

The "parent" days (Mother and Father) can be difficult. I'm sorry for all your loses.

hey

While my mom was sick, we had many memorable conversations. I loved it! I do remember our last conversation.

Life is so hard sometimes

 

[Belle0101]

My mom hasn't passed but the last thing she said to me, 20+ years ago, wasn't very nice.

Sorry for your losses.

 

[low-key]

Yes, I remember it well. It was August 16th, 2003. She died the next day in the hospital.

I had a miscarriage trying for my 2nd child and I told her we'd keep trying for another (we did have a 2nd child, in 2005). She didn't say much just that she was glad we were trying to have another child.

Haven't thought about that in a long time, I sort of try and block it out.

I think sometimes its good to think back ( not sure why)

 

[Pigeon]

Yes, but I sort of wish I didn't.

We lived out of state, and had just started new jobs, so we couldn't get home during the week too much. She had lung cancer, and the docs had predicted she could live 4-6 months. My dad called one night and put her on to talk to me, but she was ranting deleriously. She died before the weekend when we were planning on going home to see her.

 

[jc040404]

The last conversation where we both spoke, no. The last conversation where I'm pretty sure she knew what I was saying, yes. I told her to be still and that she would be fine. I loved and needed her so everything would be okay. We hadn't spoken in a very long time. She kept reaching for her eyes, so I was mostly trying to get her to relax and know I was there. It wasn't until later that I think I figured out why she did that. I hate myself for not thinking of it sooner. The last thing I said to her before she was gone, that I know she didn't understand, was "I'm so sorry." I wish that hadn't been the last thing, but I was crying too much to say another word. My family had decided to let her go.

 

[low-key]

Yes, but I sort of wish I didn't.

wouldnt we do things a little different, if w eknew that was it

The last thing I said to her before she was gone, that I know she didn't understand, was "I'm so sorry." I wish that hadn't been the last thing, but I was crying too much to say another word. My family had decided to let her go.

Letting them die is so hard, my moms Doctor said it was a "courageous decision" Im not so sure

 

[ClarabelleCowFan]

Yes, very well. It haunts me sometimes.

My Mom had fallen and broken her neck. We lived several states away so I was only able to speak to her by phone from the hospital. She was very hoarse and kept telling me over and over that she loved me. I told her I loved her too and that we were coming there as soon as we could. By the time we made it there, she had taken a turn for the worse and had to be put on a ventilator. I never heard her speak again.

 

[Lorem Ipsum]

I am so sorry to learn of your mother's passing. This must be a very hard weekend for you.

My mother is still with us, although there were some days in December I felt sure she was going to pass. She had a heart bypass- triple, 90% blockage, emergency surgery - and I was scared to death.

You will be in my thoughts tomorrow, as will all that have lost their mothers.

 

[low-key]

Yes, very well. It haunts me sometimes.

My Mom had fallen and broken her neck. We lived several states away so I was only able to speak to her by phone from the hospital. She was very hoarse and kept telling me over and over that she loved me. I told her I loved her too and that we were coming there as soon as we could. By the time we made it there, she had taken a turn for the worse and had to be put on a ventilator. I never heard her speak again.

Hey , that is horrible

I am so sorry to learn of your mother's passing. This must be a very hard weekend for you.

My mother is still with us, although there were some days in December I felt sure she was going to pass. She had a heart bypass- triple, 90% blockage, emergency surgery - and I was scared to death.

You will be in my thoughts tomorrow, as will all that have lost their mothers.

glad your mom made it thru, and thanks

 

[mackeysmom]

Four years ago this month ...

Every night before I would leave the hospital, she would make some sort of statement that started with "When I'm gone, ...". I'd say, "You're not going anywhere - take care of it yourself when you are out of here".

The last time I left for the night, she made me promise to make sure my two sisters kept up a relationship with each other once she was gone. (While I'm sure they love each other - I'm not convinced that they actually LIKE each other!!) I promised I would, and (as hard as it is) am doing my best to keep my promise.

- Laura

 

[shellabell]

My mom died in 1981 when I was 12. I do remember that we went that night to buy knitting needles for a class I was taking. I kissed her goodnight; I think she was watching Hill Street Blues. In the middle of the night my little brother woke me up saying something was wrong. She had a brain aneurysm and never regained consciousness.