It is important to figure how you want to eat while on vacation, what will work best for your family and which dining plan would suit your needs (if any).
Do you want to sit down at a restaurant once a day? Will you want to do character meals so your children can meet the various characters without standing in line in the parks? If yes, then you could look into the
Disney Dining Plan (aka DDP, Dining Plus plan or regular dining plan). It gives you 1 sit down, 1 counter serve and a snack.
Do you want to eat counter serve only? Is fo the Quick Serve dining plan (QSDP) gives you 2 counter serve meals, 2 snacks and the refillable resort mug.
Part of my vacation style is I like to plan a sit down meal each day. I love trying new restaurants and I like the break it gives. While I would not normally order a dessert at each meal, I love having that splurge at Disney! Some people with small children prefer to avoid sit down meals.
Your family will pay for 2 adults and 1 child; the 2 yr old and infant are free.
Portions at Disney are usually large and easily sharable.
I like the way menus are shown on
allears.net. You can go through and see where you'd like to eat, what you might order and get a general cost of how much you'd be spending by paying for it yourself versus on the dining plan. Tax (6.5%) is included in the dining plan, tips are not.
Buffets can be good for families because the little ones can get whatever they want and you don't have to wait around for a waiter to take your order, food to be cooked and bring it to your table.
I typically break even using the dining plan or come out ahead a little. I like having the food per-paid otherwise I'd be packing PB&Js. And some certain trips I do that route. Even on the DDP I bring breakfast foods to have in the room; granola bars, cereal bars, dry cereal in snack baggies, dried fruit, bagels.
You should also check the
Disney dining reservations site to see what restaurants you can book (if you were looking at the
free dining time period).
HTH!
