I wrecked Valentines Day before breakfast

[epcotfan]

OP, you have to stop taking your wife's crap. I can guarantee you that if I made the comment to my husband (or him to me) that your wife made about "when something is sitting at the top of the stairs it means it needs to go down stairs" the response, from either one of us, would have been. "Well, if you wanted it downstairs you should have put it there, instead of leaving it at the top of the stairs where somebody could trip over it."

This had nothing to do with the vase going downstairs. It was her (not so) passive agressive way of pointing out to you ONE MORE TIME how horrible and uncaring you are. She had to put the screws to you, and ruin another day. Make no mistake, your wife has a problem, but it is her problem and her issue. You cannot fix this for her, and telling her your sorry for every minor transgression is not helping her. You have to get angry with her and tell her to knock of the bull. As long as you keep taking her crap, she's going to keep dishing it out until your marriage implodes.

I totally agree with this assessment. From what I've read so far, it sounds like your wife will be unhappy with whatever you do or don't do. It seems like a no win situation.

 

[chobie]

I was going to fix all those and decided not to. Are you sure you aren't mnad at me? If you could see how I type, you'd wonder how I get anything spelled correctly!

CJBaby...I remember what I thought when I read that sentence also. I think it was something like, "Well, if he doesn't think of you on V-Day, who is he thinking about?!?"

Are you mnad at me?

I'm mnad as hell that you said you think you would be going from this thread and came back!