He is...we've talked once on the computer and twice on the phone since (okay, he did most of the talking b/c the second phone call was 25 minutes ago and we stayed on the phone for 20 minutes and I had been almost sound asleep....I woke up and started thinking about him and almost as soon as I started thinking about him, my cell phone rang.) I guess he wanted some sympathy because he started out by telling me that he was upset because he missed something at work accidentally and now he might not get the promotion/opportunity that he wanted for a year depending on how badly they punish him. I also mentioned to him that I might get to volunteer in the Richmond Commonwealth Attorney's office because I'm taking what's called a Service Learning class called Violence Against Women and the instructor might put me there because I'm a Criminal Justice major and b/c I'm considering going to Law School after I finish and he teased me about how I'll be making more money than him if I become a lawyer. I'm still trying to figure out why he would even think about the income I would make as a lawyer as being more than what he makes. When we first started dating, I mentioned that if I ever did go to law school I would never be a divorce lawyer and he said "Good, because I couldn't marry you if you were....I can just see it if we were to get divorced. You'd say 'I want half of his retirement' and I'd be like 'but your honor, she just bought me that Mercedes last year and the house is hers, and....'" I'm wondering if even though he's backed off on mentioning marriage and children he's still thinking about marriage and children with me (and I'm also thinking about whether I mind that or not.)