Thanks all. Some of your answers are making me LOL!!
I've given up on that one.

It was too far gone by the time we found out what was wrong with it. It's all brown now, and it's too hot outside to be worth fighting it.

When it cools down, we'll replace it. With what, I don't know, but we'll replace it with something.

We'll *try* to find the same thing at the garden center.
As for identifying it -- I've tried at the garden center before with little luck. I found a couple that may have been it, but I forget what they are now. No use there.

And the people in the garden centers around here.... eh. I've *occasionally* found someone friendly, but most of the time I'm lucky if they speak to me, luckier if they speak English, and even luckier if they know even half their plants.
We do have similar plants, about 7 of them actually, around our garden. However, this was lucky -- the one we lost to white scale is by itself. We have/had two plants flanking our garage door. One is in the bed that wraps around the edge of the garage and goes to our front door. The other was nothing more than a small bed just large enough for the one plant. *That* was the plant that we lost. So it's at least 20 feet from the nearest plant, and all the others are doing well.
It did flower very briefly this spring with little white flowers about 1/4" across, maybe just a little bigger. Otherwise it's all green, but in the fall the green leaves get a little bit of a red tint to them. They're actually very pretty.
Olena -- I wish! I'd love a butterfly bush! 'Course, I'd probly kill it.

The only things that are obviously thriving in our garden are those planted by the builder.
