sunnyday123
<font color=blue>Someone hand me my drool towel<br
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I think you misunderstand... my meaning was that it *SEEMS* that the DIL has decided not to start a war after all. If the anxiety over a situation is causing stomach pains or other medical issues, then sometimes one has to make a decision to go to their 'happy place' (in the immortal words of Happy Gimore) and make a decision to "not worry about her". I basically agree with you about everything in your post... well, except maybe the driving
3 hours to commit bodily mayhem.
I missed this in the post of this thread.to the DIL's comment that the OP has any hand in creating this mess ("WE are creating aggravation"?).
Hugs to you lucyanna girl -
agnes!
Oh, sorry!!
I probably did misunderstand-I honestly cannot imagine calling a MIL and saying the things that were said. OP, you just have to "be a duck"-let it all roll off your back. Call your son, talk to him and the little ones. You can't change people, but you can control your reactions to their nuttiness.
