ScarletIndigo
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- May 8, 2003
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Originally posted by safetymom
When I am in WDW I try to sprinkle a little magic back to the CM's. One time while getting my Dole Whip I said thank you very much when she handed it to me. Her face lit up like she had hit the lottery.
But that's exactly my point -- saying "thank you" should certainly be sufficient enough to warrant the "extra touches" that you all have mentioned. I had thought about using the Mousekeeping envelopes just to leave little personalized notes of thanks, but then I felt guilty that the Mousekeeper would open the envelope and be disappointed that there was only a note, and no tip.
I agree with you that showing your appreciate is paramount -- especially in a place like WDW where Cast Members and Mousekeeping staff will usually do all they can to ensure that you have a fantastic vacation. However, I've worked in several service jobs with minimal income -- food service, retail, etc -- but because I was paid minimum wage or better, my job was considered a non-tipped position. Would it have touched me if someone had slipped me $1 or $2 and said "thanks ringing up these 200 votive candles and maintaining a smile on your face"? ABSOLUTELY! But the fact of the matter is that it would have been frowned upon (or even absolutely forbidden, in some cases) for me to accept the money. And you have to respect the guidelines that are in place. DF used to try to tip the baggers at the grocery store all the time, but they consistently told him that they couldn't accept his money. Why? Because even though they provide an efficient service, they're not in a tipped position. And if the people who work in Mousekeeping -- as wonderful, kind, and thoughtful as they may be -- are not techinically in a "tipped position", it doesn't feel right for folks like myself to feel guilty or stingy for not tipping.
I suppose I was brought up to always say "please" and "thank you" and show kindness and respect to everyone -- not to mention that I always clean up in my hotel rooms so there's never a mess for the maid service to deal with. You're right, an extra $20 over the course of a week isn't going to make or break your budget. But my point is that WDW vacations can be very pricey -- even with the FTP deal, which many of us have taken advantage of -- and in my mind the money you spend on your vacation should include wonderful service, no matter what.