I need your prayers... a decision has been made....

[TinkBride]

My condolences to you and your family during this time. I know it must be very hard for you to imagine celebrating your upcoming wedding with all that has happened. If your BG feels that he needs and want to go on with the wedding as planned then I wish you only the best. Even though his father may not be there physically, he will be spiritually. And he will be watching over you with nothing but joy in his heart!

I wish you and your future hubby nothing but the absolute best! We will all be thinking of you and your family during this time.

Our prayers are with you!

P.S. I am sorry if this is too soon for you, but have you considered including his memory in your ceremony? It may be a nice gesture to put a nice flower or something in the chair he may have sat in. Or something to that degree....just a suggestion.....sorry if that is a little forward....

 

[TinkBride]

sorry, double post!

 

[happylalagirl]

I am sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers.

 

[Belle1981]

Angela,
Once again I give you my condolences. I do wish you all the best with your wedding. It will be tough however everyone will have something to focus on in the next few weeks. This will not be easy but just the same enjoy your wedding since you are marrying your prince charming. Hugs to you both!

 

[JonetteA]

I am sorry for everything that has happened. Remembering that these loved ones are still with you is worth everything.

 

[PrincessShanShan]

I'm so sorry you have to go through all of this. I think I'd be like your BG and the wedding would help take my mind off things. I wish the two of you all the best. Looking at your siggy line, your getting married on my 1st anniversary! It's THE BEST day for a wedding!! We will be heading down the next day (Dec. 23) to finally have our honeymoon. Who knows, we may even bumb into each other! Stay strong and all the best to you both.

 

[Funniebunny]

You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time, I'm so sorry to hear of your loss

 

[sefny]

I'm so sorry for your loss and I'll continue to keep you and your family in my prayers.

 

[Cinderella Fan]

My condolences to you and your family during this time. I know it must be very hard for you to imagine celebrating your upcoming wedding with all that has happened. If your BG feels that he needs and want to go on with the wedding as planned then I wish you only the best. Even though his father may not be there physically, he will be spiritually. And he will be watching over you with nothing but joy in his heart!

I wish you and your future hubby nothing but the absolute best! We will all be thinking of you and your family during this time.

Our prayers are with you!

P.S. I am sorry if this is too soon for you, but have you considered including his memory in your ceremony? It may be a nice gesture to put a nice flower or something in the chair he may have sat in. Or something to that degree....just a suggestion.....sorry if that is a little forward....

No, it is not too forward. I spoke with Rosie today about having a "Memory candle" placed beside us at the altar, which I think B.G.'s dad would be very proud of.

Thanks again....

 

[gradtchr]

Huge hugs to you during this time. I know how tough it is to lose someone right before the happiest day of your life. My grandfather passed away 9 days before my wedding and having the wedding coming up so fast did help keep my mind off of it did help.

 

[kimnkel]

Cinderella Fan, I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your FFIL. Both of my parents are passed on, and I can tell you that grief is an odd thing--it hits you at weird times and sometimes gets worse months afterward-- so I am not sure delaying the wedding would have helped much, you know? I am glad you made the decision to go forward. Think of it as affirming life--because that is really what marriage signifies, don't you think? The commitment affirms life.

Have a wonderful wedding. Be spectacularly happy--because I bet that is what your father-in-law would have wanted.

God bless you all.

 

[princessblueeyzes]

I am so sorry to hear about your loss- you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

 

[StephSFL]

Cinderella Fan,
I am so sorry for your loss- I cannot fathom what you are going through. You are your family are in my thoughts.

 

[disneydreamgirl05]

I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers

 

[Maggimus]

Aww... I dont want to be repetative but- Im so sorry!! I hope things look up for you and your family and know that we here on the Wedding and Honeymoon boards are here for you 110%- anytime you need a place to vent! Good luck on your wedding and everything to come..

 

[smoof]

If BG wants to go with it, I think you should go for it. Everyone is going to need something to celebrate and be happy about. I am very sorry to hear you even have to make this decision and he won't be there to share it with you. I don't know him, but I am sure he would want you to go with the plans.