I need some advice.

[thelittlemermaid83]

In 10 days as you know im going DLRP...

I was meant to be meeting "mr ex disneyman" but we have had a huge row and we are not speaking and it looks like we will not be meeting.

So im kinda stuck with what to do, i have 3 options.

1-Go by myself
2-Take Kyra
3-Meet up with my "friend" who is still going and spend the 2days at the park with her.

I know if i went by myself i will prob start to feel sorry for myself, also if i take Kyra i cant go on the bigger rides unless i ask my "friend" and her friend to do baby swap with me.

I'm just so unsure of what to do.

You may aswell all put them wedding hats away

 

[ynwa19]

My advice would be to try and patch things up with the person you have had a row with.

Me and my wife have fallen out loads of times (really badly), but we love each other and have managed to move on.

Failing that, I think you should try the baby swap idea.

Good luck with whatever you do and make sure that you have a great time whatever happens

 

[thelittlemermaid83]

My advice would be to try and patch things up with the person you have had a row with.

Me and my wife have fallen out loads of times (really badly), but we love each other and have managed to move on.

Failing that, I think you should try the baby swap idea.

Good luck with whatever you do and make sure that you have a great time whatever happens

I think patching things up is out of the question...he wont even speak to me.

I am determined to try and have a good time even if part of me will be sad lol.

 

[Jazzman67]

Well, I hope you have a good time in 10 days. If all works out well for
me, we might meet when I'm at Disneyland, the same time as you will be.

I'll see how my budget will be... I think I should be ok, though, since it's just
a few days at Disneyland and Paris.

I hope you and your daughter will have a good time, too. Just enjoy your time
at Disneyland with her.

 

[tigger300686]

I think you should take kyra and enjoy the time with your DD, you can always ask your friend if she wounldnt mind doing the baby swap so that you can get to go on some rides

 

[britchic4]

I'm sorry it hasn't worked out with Mr Disneyman. Long distance relationships are very hard to make work, particularly when you're still getting to know each other. (((Hugs)))
I would take Kyra and see if your friend would mind doing baby swap once or twice.

 

[thelittlemermaid83]

I'm sorry it hasn't worked out with Mr Disneyman. Long distance relationships are very hard to make work, particularly when you're still getting to know each other. (((Hugs)))
I would take Kyra and see if your friend would mind doing baby swap once or twice.

Well he was a control freak anyway

 

[thelittlemermaid83]

Ok more drama...

Now the friend who ditched me to go with her other friend has now told me her other friend is too sick and can she come with me.....

I dont know what to do, i wanted to take Kyra and what if Swen does meet me.

This whole mess is making me feel ill.

 

[britchic4]

What an exciting life you lead! In that case I hope the 'friend' has come crawling back and apologised! So as long as you can trust her not to say the other friend is not sick anymore and change plans again, maybe you should go with her as originally planned, with the condition that if Swen does come she'll have to amuse herself for a few hours.

 

[thelittlemermaid83]

Maybe i should just not go

 

[Danauk]

After the drama with your so called friend, I think you should not even have much to do wither her, let alone go to DL with her. If you feel you need some 'adult' time, go alone, do what you want, ride the adult rides and have fun. If you don't feel you need adult time take your daughter. Personally I think you are very lucky to be able to go so often, to me it seems other people have been helping you out with this your friend buying the train ticket for you until you could pay her back, your mum helping you out with the accomodation costs. Go, have fun. I wish I could go to DLP for one night so suddenly!!

 

[BRobson]

Oh dear Emma here is a . If you want a grown up trip and you are willing to make up with your girlfriend I would go with her

Kyra is at an age when she will forgive you if you go without her(I am sure she will have a blast whatever) you will be able to enjoy the bigger rides,stay out later,eat and drink when you want. It will be a few years before you and Kyra can enjoy the bigger rides so this may be your only chance for a while and as a single mum you deserve a bit of me time

 

[thelittlemermaid83]

Thanks guys.

I shall let you know what i decide. Im not good at making decisions lol.

 

[amandajim36]

i would tell the friend where to go she has a cheek even asking

 

[ema74]

i would tell the friend where to go she has a cheek even asking

I'm with you on this one... You don't need a 'friend' like her...

I'd still go, even if you go on your own. Enjoy you me time!!!

Hope you patch things up with Mr D.

 

[sam_rogers]

lots of maybe with everything thats been going on it might be nice to get away on your own for a few days and have some alone time and get back in touch with the magic

 

[giuly09]

Hi Emma sorry i am late, my laptop is out of use
my advice is go on your own and make the most of your *solo*
time, no way i could say yes to the ex-friend
About Kyra, well she is still little and she had already been this year, i would go for the scary rides this time

 

[jillrobinson]

Oh dear you're really not having much luck with this trip
I don't know what to suggest really, personally I wouldn't be interested in the ex friend but it's a personal thing only you know if you can forgive them over the tickets and the way you were treated then.
If it was me I'd be more inclined to take Kyra.

 

[thelittlemermaid83]

Part of me wants to go alone, but then part of me wants to take Kyra.

My friend has ruled out baby swap as she said she hasnt got time to waste by doing this. So ive ruled out going with her.

I just feel like screaming as i just dont know what to do. If i go by myself i will prob end up feeling depressed and thats the last thing i want to feel right now. If i take Kyra yes i will miss out on the big rides but when i go with my brother in September i know i will be able to go on them then.

Decisions, decisions..i thought sleeping on it would help lol.

 

[britchic4]

Your friend doesn't sound like much of a friend, if she's talking about doing you a favour being a waste of her time (apart from everything else she's already done!). If you think you'll be depressed on your own take Kyra, and her little smile will cheer you up.