So many happy memories. One is a quiet moment, sitting in the adult-only area with my wife, older daughter, and brother and sister-in-laws (hereinafter my brother and sister, since that is how I think of them), knowing my other daughter was having the time of her life socializing in the teen club. My wife had been bed-bound for over four years, following our first cruise, and the thing I missed the most and thought I would never do again, was a
Disney Cruise. Now, here we were, my wife healed and eating normal food again (after cooking and packing food for any trip we took), on a Disney Cruise, with my brother and sister, who I adore and never thought would join us on a cruise, let alone a Disney Cruise. It was warm, calm, and peaceful. Work wasn't even in the corners of my mind. It was pure bliss. I remember sitting there thinking, "don't let this moment pass. Freeze time, because I feel nothing but happiness right now."
For someone who battles anxiety, it was amazing. Come to think of it, my anxiety almost never surfaces while cruising. It's too disconnected form reality.
My brother and sister were hooked, and had the idea of all of us booking another cruise together this upcoming March. The thought of it keeps me going during these difficult times. It makes me so happy they caught the bug. If March doesn't happen, it will happen one day.
Other highlights from the two cruises we have taken:
- That feeling you have dishing up your first plate at Cabanas for lunch on embarkation, knowing you are finally there and have an entire week ahead of you.
- Sitting with my wife on deck four, the crazy-deep-blue sea passing by below. The breeze just right.
- Our nightly attendance of the shows, all sitting in a row, my brother and sister always ordering treats, and just thinking how nice it was having so many people I love in one place.
- The family gathering for dinner every night.
- Not cooking or cleaning up dinner - now that's vacation!
- My youngest ordering cheeseburgers every single night for a week, with a side of escargot or other adventurous dishes.
- Sitting on the veranda, watching the birds dive and fly in the draft of the ship
- Picking up that extra ice-cream cone when my wife thought I was just filling the water bottles, and always having room for one more before they shut down for the night
- Pulling into new ports for the first time and being amazed by the beauty of the place and adventure that lies ahead, with the comfort of coming back to my unpacked and clean room after a long day of play.