clarabelle said:
Don't get me wrong -I would be ecstatic and I am thrilled for the winners.
But I hope they don't tell their boss to shove it and buy a mansion and a boat and wind up with more debt than they started (I have heard those kinds of stories)
Back when I was working at a bank as a loan officer I had a guy come in--exactly that. He had won several million in the lottery about five years earlier, and it was all gone. He was broke and his house was very close to foreclosure, he was trying to refinance but he had ruined his credit with huge credit card debts--most of it spent on his homies who had abandoned him one the money was gone.
On the other hand I was working at a different bank, and an elderly gentleman walked in the door. He seemed a bit "lost" so I walked over and asked him if I could help him. He carefully took two pieces of paper out of his pocket, laid them on the counter, and smoothed them out, and very quietly said, "Ma'am, I'd like to buy a house."
He was obviously a man who had worked very hard in his lifetime, tried to be a good man, very respectful, very humble, but ignorant. (And I mean that in a literal way, not a rude way.) I looked at those pieces of carefully smoothed paper, and they were two lottery checks for a total of about $35,000.
I took him to my desk and we sat down and talked a bit. He had indeed come from humble beginnings, the son of sharecroppers, the grandson of freed slaves. I called a Realtor friend who I knew would respect him and look out for his best interests. The gentleman didn't even have a bank account, had paid everything in cash his entire life. I handed him over to a platform officer who helped him open a savings account and deposit those two checks.
He came to visit me a few days after he closed on his house, and I swear he was ten inches taller. His face beamed with pride as he showed me the keys to his house. HIS house. He told me he was going to plant a garden, something he had longed to do his entire adult life and never been able to as he always rented. I still think back on that gentleman, and hope he had many long and happy years in that home, chasing rabbits from his garden and enjoying the fresh air and sunshine.
Anne