I just want to crawl in a hole.

[Pooh67_68]

 

[vald1977]

I'm so sorry, Tamie . I will keep you and your dh in my prayers.

 

[RitaZ.]

Tamie, I'm sorry to hear that. Hugs to you. Hang in there.

 

[jacksonsmom]

I wish I could give you a real one.

You are right, it isn't fair!!!!
I agree with getting your progestrone levels checks. I found out that is what was causing my miscarriages.
Once I got on progestrone I was able to carry a baby to full term & now have a 4 year old miracle.

Right now though, make sure you & DH comfort each other!
I am so sorry!!!

 

[mom2boys]

A miscarriage is a difficult thing to endure.

 

[Tinkerbelle739]

So sorry to hear about your loss. Please know that just because you have had 2 miscarriages, you can still have a baby.

I was married 9 years and had many miscarriages and one day I felt a little ill and sleepy. I went to the doctor and I was 3 1/2 months pregnant! I didnt even occur to me that I might be pregnant. I now have 2 children.

Mourn your loss and remember that you have alot of support from those of us who have been there too.

 

[floridafam]

So sorry

 

[MickeysMommy]

 

[WebmasterMaryJo]

Tamie

 

[hipporina]

I'm so sorry to hear what you are going through. I know it must be an incredibly difficult thing to experience. I'm not sure how long of a road this has been for you, but I know that it can be very challenging and painful.

Dh and I have been trying to conceive for almost 4 years now and have never had a pregnancy at all. We do have 2 wonderful adopted sons though. What I have learned through all this is that God really does have a plan for your life. From your post, it sounds like you are Christian. If that is the case, you can always cling to Romans 8:28 "And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love Him, who have been called according to His purpose."

I know that is not some magic cure that will erase all of the hurt you are feeling, but it can provide comfort. Someday you will reach the point where you can look back and realize that yes, it hurt, but there was a reason. There are times where I look at my kids and thank God for our infertility and for using that to bring the boys into our lives. Of course, there are still times that it hurts as I would very much like to experience pregnancy and the birth of a child, but I know God is still working in my life.

Its okay (and good) to cry and scream and "throw a hissy fit" if you need to. You are right, it just flat isn't fair. Remember, God understands your pain and suffers with you because He loves you that much. There is a light at the end of the tunnel. I will keep you in my prayers.

Kristy

 

[scarlett873]

i am so very sorry...

 

[Ranatra]

Tamie, I'm SO very sorry.

 

[DisneyFreak43]

So sorry for your loss, Tamie. Prayers coming your way. We also suffered 2 miscarriages many years ago- lots of crying and punching pillows helped for me. I also agree with the other 2 who said to get your progesterone levels checked. This was what my OB-GYN said could be my problem- we have 2 teenage sons now!

 

[kimber79]

Oh Tamie, I am so sorry to hear of your troubled times. Keep your head up sweetie. I personally haven't been where you are, but my brother & sister-in-law miscarried once and I now have a beautiful 3 year old niece! Also, a dear friend miscarried 3 times, and is now due in May with a girl...........so keep the faith, it will happen for you! I truly believe in *everything happens for a reason*........it doesn't make it any easier, but know in your heart that one day you will be parents of a beautiful, happy, healthy bundle of joy!! Hang in there darlin!!

 

[newholiday]

Im sorry

 

[Serena]

I'm so sorry Tamie.

 

[JohnsPrincess]

I am So so sorry for your loss! I wanted to write in here to also tell you about this other board that I go to. It's called ultimatebaby. It's Really great and deals with everything about babies...but there is also an area about loss that a lot of woman (and some men) have found extemely helpful in dealing with their pain.

 

[~*Belle 2003*~]

I'm so sorry Tamie.

 

[Planogirl]

I'm so very sorry.

 

[pirateofthecarolinas]

I'm so sorry for what you are going through right now Tamie.

Lori