I just don't like it...

[tinkerbell12]

I don't... I don't like it... not what the TB is... not why some people left the TB.... I just can't take it... I swear, it just doesn't feel right...

I know there's apology threads and the whole Thumper thing, but there's this feeling I have that makes this doesn't seem right... and I just don't know... If someone else has it, please tell me...

I just don't feel like it's right, there's some kind of tension in the air to what the TB really is, I remember when it was a really fun place... just I don't know... UGH!!!

No flame fest please it's just honest truly honest opinions and just what it's now... just i can't explain it... UGH now I'm so frustrated!

I just feel that everyone's afraid to post opinions now because they don't want to start fights but I think it's ruining the TB because that's what boards are, they are opinions and advice... It's really eating me up! ARRRRRRRRR!!!!!!!!!

 

[HSMndLKfan92]

Maybe you don't want the TB to change.

To be honest, I'm afraid what's in store for us.



Just keep your head held high.

 

[EeyoreFan1]

The TB is taking a turn. For the better? Maybe. For the worst? Possibly. Wait and see. Pm me.

 

[DollfieDreams]

i really wasnt going to say anything...but now that you mention it..

i have this feeling that everyones sort of putting on a fake smile just to move on. dontflamedontflamedontflame! maybe its just from the over amounts of kindness going around that we're frankly not used to, or maybe its because im a littly fuzzy right now from being sick xD. i just dont want it to be "fake" is all im saying. dont yell at me. o_o

 

[GirlWithSpunk]

What is going on!?
I left for like 3 days and now I found out that people are leaving because of some newbie problem?

 

[EeyoreFan1]

i really wasnt going to say anything...but now that you mention it..

i have this feeling that everyones sort of putting on a fake smile just to move on. dontflamedontflamedontflame! maybe its just from the over amounts of kindness going around that we're frankly not used to, or maybe its because im a littly fuzzy right now from being sick xD. i just dont want it to be "fake" is all im saying. dont yell at me. o_o

We are putting on a fake smile. We all are. I am. I know it. For now, do that. Please. While we work things out, cooperate. Everone. Please.

What is going on!?
I left for like 3 days and now I found out that people are leaving because of some mewbie problem?

Yes, pm me if you want details. I'm not going on rants out loud anymore.

 

[HSMndLKfan92]

i really wasnt going to say anything...but now that you mention it..

i have this feeling that everyones sort of putting on a fake smile just to move on. dontflamedontflamedontflame! maybe its just from the over amounts of kindness going around that we're frankly not used to, or maybe its because im a littly fuzzy right now from being sick xD. i just dont want it to be "fake" is all im saying. dont yell at me. o_o

This isn't a flame, its just my part of the story.

Someone needs to keep us happy. This board can't become depressed. It just, well, can't. I don't intend to sound fake. I don't intend to sound like a school teacher. I just want to try to keep everyone's heads held high during this time.

 

[DollfieDreams]

guys, i understand completely i really do. i do it all the time with other events and such. i just know it makes people uncomfortable sometimes, including myself. but i know we are all being sincere here, and really do mean the things we're saying.

im glad you all have the courage to do it.

 

[EeyoreFan1]

This isn't a flame, its just my part of the story.

Someone needs to keep us happy. This board can't become depressed. It just, well, can't. I don't intend to sound fake. I don't intend to sound like a school teacher. I just want to try to keep everyone's heads held high during this time.

This is exactly what I am trying my BEST to do. I am telling everyone calm down, and don't flame. But we can't hold it in.

 

[tinkerbell12]

This is exactly what I am trying my BEST to do. I am telling everyone calm down, and don't flame. But we can't hold it in.

Ok, I really know you are trying, and I really appreciate it, but you're right, it's really hard to hold it in...

Thanks Jessie, you are doing a really good job...

It's just extremely hard!

I'm telling you this because I care... (quoting from Jessie) PM someone like Jessie, someone who can calm you down and don't post!

I really just had to let out my feelings and see if other's had the same, so we could just share and know we aren't different....

 

[HSMndLKfan92]

If anyone ever needs to PM me, ever, I'll listen.

 

[Captain Brain]

*listens intently*

I am willing to listen to any problems, anything. In fact, I have my stress ball right beside me. I'll send you it, via wire of course.

 

[EeyoreFan1]

=] Thanks Jaimie, and Billy. Us three are the TB Peace Corps. If anyone needs to flame....take it out via pm. Hey! Pm yourself if you have to. I am willing to accept pms. If anyone needs to pm me and flame. Do it. I understand. =] Thanks guys.

 

[Captain Brain]

The TB Peace Corp "Your Ray of Sunshine!"

 

[EeyoreFan1]

The TB Peace Corp "Your Ray of Sunshine!"

Love it!




And I wanted to say...

No more "PLEASE DONT FLAME ME!" There is NO need of that. When there is a flame, report it. Do not reply back. Thats another one of our problems..And we should not have to be scared of being flamed. I am no longer flaming. Ranting, sure, but no flaming.

 

[BabyPiglet]

Exactly what Jess just said...

You know it's bad when after every sentence we have to say "PLEASE DON'T FLAME ME"... People should be able to express there opinion wihtout writing that...

Also any of you can PM me whenever you feel then need to flame. You can tell me exactly what you were going to say, just so it's out of your system. I won't tell any body, it's Jenny - Pm-er confidinciality...lol...

Just do something not to flame. And by no means am I saying don't voice your opinion, that's very important. But there's no reason to openly flame and belittle a dIser...

 

[Babyjustrun]

I will always post what I want, what I feel.
I am sometimes afraid to post things, but never because of this whole 'let's keep things good' thing. I've always been afraid to speak because I'm not wholly educated on the subject and do not want to wind up saying something stupid and incorrect.
I'm not just going to keep things to myself if it's something I want to say, but of course, I will always say my opinion in a nice way.

 

[CrazyChik]

no matter where or when you put any group of people togeter your going to get 'cliques' your going to get people who dont like each other you can't stop that.
however it is getting ridicoulous
ever heard the expression: take a deep breath and walk way.


and i do feel all these threads and the mods threads are contributing to our problem.

i dont know what to do

i just do the take a deep breath and walk away when i wanna flame someone

 

[Loves Disney]

I for one, never put on a fake smile when it comes to virtuality. I don't think it's necessary and, like Holden Caulfield (from my fav. book ever lol), I hate "phonies". With that said, through all this I am not putting on a fake smile and I hope not to be grouped as a whole to be doing that. Not everyone on the Teen Board is putting on that "fake smile".

Also, I think it becomes vital to try our best to advance in a direction that helps "repair" what was broken on the board rather than look at it, tilt our heads, and stair at the rip. Nothing gets fixed unless action is taken to it. This is where we figure out who looks at the glass as half full and half empty. Not everyone is the same. I don't think millions of appology threads are necessary and I don't think millions of "let's get this better" threads are necessary either. As long as members understand it is important to respect others and their posts and that it is okay to disgaree, but never okay to flame anyone...then we are on the right track.

My suggestion, if any moderator or webmaster should see, is to make Princess Ash's thread or the "R-e-s-p-e-c-t" thread a sticky so that any new coming member can read the thread and understand that the teen board is all about respect, decency and understanding.

What happened the past few days was insanely corrupt and that isn't cool. It just isn't. It's going to be hard to forget it and for some, it may feel like that feeling won't go away. But if we don't flame, and if we respect more, things will look better.

 

[Mickey1122]

I don't think that we are putting on a fake smile so much as we are putting our old differences behind us and making resolutions not to continue causing trouble. These threads are a vehicle for that. We hope that when these threads are gone in a few days, the goodwill will continue.