Wow - this thread brought tears to my eyes.... Huh - didn'y expect that.
I know how it is to get rage-blind and pop off and let things escalate - and only a well timed phone call kept me from doing something similar today.
I also know how hard it is to pull your socks up and 'fess up, and try and make it right.
I think the three of you handled this honorably - thanks for the example!
Pete - while I am pretty sure the cruise will be more work than play for you, I hope you have a wonderful time and get t experience how much you mean to a lot of us. While I sadly can't be on the boat, I will be thinking of you all.
Happy Sailing!