I have 'love' problems...

[daughter_of_amid_chaos]

Maybe you just step off a bit.
People who are constantly being hounded by someone will really not like that person.
You may just make things worse freaking out about it.

 

[KingdomHearts1991]

ok...i haven't been looking at this thred for a long time, and i'll tell you what has happened. i stopped liking amanda, and starting liking a girl named adria. today, i discovered that i want to tear adria into a gazillion little pieces, smash her with a rock on the head, etc...and now i like amanda again. if i call amanda(which i don't have her phone number) she'll freak out and hang up. but, i will ask her why she hates me so much...thank you

 

[PrincessTink]

Hey-
Okay, I might not exactly help you but I'll give it a shot. How long have you liked her??
Ok. Well I heard that your in 8th grade.. so am I. I'll give you a little of my experince. In the middle of last year, there was a new kid in school. He was in my pod and in most of my classes. At the end of last year, almost 2 months after he moved here, I found out that he liked me. He really freaked me out b/c I didnt really kno him. Then we became best friends. It was hard for me tho, b/c like i said I didnt kno him. But I gave him a chance, and I learned that he was a really sweet kid. This year, I heard that he still liked me. At our school we have this dance for all the 8th graders (Winter Wonderland). Some of his friends sorta told me that he was goin to ask me. I did flip a little, but i kne that i could trust him. He didnt ask tho, but the dance is in Dec.
Anyway.. maybe try and become better friends with her. Then she wont feel so wierd.

 

[daughter_of_amid_chaos]

Why don't you leave her alone for alittle while?
Just take a step back...let her chill out.
And the fact that you stopped liking her and then liked another girl and now you don't like the other girl but still like the first girl....tells me that you probably have no idea what you want.

 

[WDWHunk]

Originally posted by daughter_of_amid_chaos

And the fact that you stopped liking her and then liked another girl and now you don't like the other girl but still like the first girl....tells me that you probably have no idea what you want.

Listen up man... you want girls to like you, this is what you do. But do it genuinely...

Be a gentlemen! Girls like to be treated like Queens. So do just that. Open doors,do things you don't want to(shopping etc.), pay for stuff,call her just to say hi, leave her sweet little messages. Chances are, if you treat your girl like a Queen, she's likely to return the favor and treat you like a King. But truly, just be a sweet guy. Don't be gay or anything, be sweet, but show that you are still a man and can protect her if need be.

Don't be shy. Just go up and talk to her. Someone else said to ask her why she hates you. If she does say, "because your stupid", screw her man. She obviously is too immature to bother with right now. But do this with all girls, just go up and talk to them. Show confidence, but don't be arrogant.

Being in 8th grade you really do not need a girlfriend. I'm not trying to discourage you at all, I'm just telling you the truth. I mean really, what can do you? You get to have your parents drive you around to the movies so you can go see Brother Bear while your parents are in the Matrix. Then when you drop her back home you can't kiss her because your parents are right there with their eyes on you. Wait a couple of years bro, you will have much more experience with girls and you'll look back and be like.. hey... WDWHunk knew what he was talking about. How do you think I got this name?


p.s. All girls are also emotionally unstable, they do have the potential to go crazy on you for no reason at all. Watch out for the crazy ones. Well, the really crazy ones anyways.

 

[daughter_of_amid_chaos]

Originally posted by WDWHunk



Listen up man... you want girls to like you, this is what you do. But do it genuinely...

Be a gentlemen! Girls like to be treated like Queens. So do just that. Open doors,do things you don't want to(shopping etc.), pay for stuff,call her just to say hi, leave her sweet little messages. Chances are, if you treat your girl like a Queen, she's likely to return the favor and treat you like a King. But truly, just be a sweet guy. Don't be gay or anything, be sweet, but show that you are still a man and can protect her if need be.

Don't be shy. Just go up and talk to her. Someone else said to ask her why she hates you. If she does say, "because your stupid", screw her man. She obviously is too immature to bother with right now. But do this with all girls, just go up and talk to them. Show confidence, but don't be arrogant.

Being in 8th grade you really do not need a girlfriend. I'm not trying to discourage you at all, I'm just telling you the truth. I mean really, what can do you? You get to have your parents drive you around to the movies so you can go see Brother Bear while your parents are in the Matrix. Then when you drop her back home you can't kiss her because your parents are right there with their eyes on you. Wait a couple of years bro, you will have much more experience with girls and you'll look back and be like.. hey... WDWHunk knew what he was talking about. How do you think I got this name?


p.s. All girls are also emotionally unstable, they do have the potential to go crazy on you for no reason at all. Watch out for the crazy ones. Well, the really crazy ones anyways.

Guys are just as crazy as girls AND just as confusing.

 

[WDWHunk]

Originally posted by daughter_of_amid_chaos
Guys are just as crazy as girls AND just as confusing.

What'd I tell you man?

 

[daughter_of_amid_chaos]

Originally posted by WDWHunk
What'd I tell you man?

Hey Watch it...that's a mod you're talking about

 

[lancerguys]

WDW, dude, I couldnt agree with you more. Some days, girls are awesome, and then some days, they freak out and cry over nothing. But seriously, KingdomHearts, you gotta relax and chill out from her. Seriously dude, you are definitely not going to get positive attention from her and make her start liking you by constantly trying to hook up with her. Let her go, see if she comes back, if she does, then you know that she really doesn't hate you, and if she doesn't, then you just gotta realize that you should back off. Plus, it doesn't help that you are constantly switching girls you like. And, you don't need a girlfriend. Trust me. I'm in 10th grade, don't have one, and don't want one now. Believe me, if the girl was great, then I would hook it up, but I'm way too busy with school and sports to have time for a girl. Too much maitnance. And I know it's hard to stop liking her, but things get to a point where you move on and find the other fish in the sea.

 

[daughter_of_amid_chaos]

Originally posted by lancerguys
WDW, dude, I couldnt agree with you more. Some days, girls are awesome, and then some days, they freak out and cry over nothing. But seriously, KingdomHearts, you gotta relax and chill out from her. Seriously dude, you are definitely not going to get positive attention from her and make her start liking you by constantly trying to hook up with her. Let her go, see if she comes back, if she does, then you know that she really doesn't hate you, and if she doesn't, then you just gotta realize that you should back off. Plus, it doesn't help that you are constantly switching girls you like. And, you don't need a girlfriend. Trust me. I'm in 10th grade, don't have one, and don't want one now. Believe me, if the girl was great, then I would hook it up, but I'm way too busy with school and sports to have time for a girl. Too much maitnance. And I know it's hard to stop liking her, but things get to a point where you move on and find the other fish in the sea.

YOu guys are too young to be shelling out advice like this.
Even the guys I am at school with still have girl problems.

 

[lancerguys]

Originally posted by daughter_of_amid_chaos
YOu guys are too young to be shelling out advice like this.
Even the guys I am at school with still have girl problems.

I'm just trying to give a guy some advice. I know you think I'm too young, but I'm closer in age to him than you are.

 

[daughter_of_amid_chaos]

Originally posted by lancerguys
I'm just trying to give a guy some advice. I know you think I'm too young, but I'm closer in age to him than you are.

I didn't mean it in a bad way.
I was just saying how everybody has love problems..and once you think you have it all figured out...something happens and you realize ya don't.

 

[lancerguys]

ok, sorry I took it the wrong way!!

 

[WDWHunk]

Originally posted by daughter_of_amid_chaos
YOu guys are too young to be shelling out advice like this.
Even the guys I am at school with still have girl problems.

Well you can't really say that because you don't know us personally. It goes on a case by case basis.

 

[MinnieROXS]

i'm in 8th grade to and as someone said before you shoould try to be friends with her first that way she'll know how great u r and she won't be freeked out she'll no u can be someone she can talk to and that may help either that or u 2 may become best friends and some times that can be beter