I am bidding on an item I have found on Ebay. It's the first time we have bid. Its an automotive part that I would really like to buy, so it isn't "optional". If I don't get it on Ebay I will have to pay retail for it. Right now we are the highest bidder but we haven't met the "reserve" yet. Should we raise our bid price until we "hit" the reserve. If it goes up too far, I would just as soon pay retail with a discount. Thanks,