I have a friend problem

[carbur]

I have a friend that has been going out with this boy for about a week. First thing is she did not tell me. one of my friends had to tell me. Then she is starting to blow me off to go with him. Now she invited him and 4 other people to her house and she did not invite me. I have been her friend longer, and to top it all off she was talking about it right in front of me. That made me very upset. I am not jealous of her. I don't know what i should do about it.

 

[2HOT2touch]

confront her about it and tell her what you are feeling

 

[yoyo93]

what she said

 

[AmoDolphin]

confront her about it and tell her what you are feeling

I agree

 

[catnik]

yea, had this problem once. we talked it out "very calmly" and ow we are friends again. so yea, talk to her about it.

srry this is polysisterchick.... changing sns thought this was mine..

 

[polysisterchick]

/\ srry that was me

 

[Princess_Jordenne]

id have to agree everyone else. i think its only fair to talk to her about it. cause maybe she doenst even realize you're feeling that way. i know how you feel but just try talking to her about it. set aside a time for just the two of you nd dont yell or blame her or anything, just let her know. nd if she still acts taht way, then you dont need her. you only need the people that need you. nd im sure when her nd her boyfriend break up (which they eventually will) she'll be begging for you back. good luck.

 

[nightmare21rock]

Yeah. you need to confront her about this problem. i don't know from personal experiences how you're feeling, but my main guess is that you're really bummed out. let her go about her way with her boyfriend. i mean, almost everybody has a first boyfriend, and then they break up. she'll be coming right back to you. and don't diss her either when she does, because she'll need a good friend to talk to at that point. and about having the people over, dont let it discourage you. if only she knew how bad it would make her feel if you did that to her. but just don't sink to that level. you MUST tell her about how you're feeling. (that could be difficult though if HE's always around!!! lol) Just don't get mean with her or start a fight. that's the worst thing that can happen. I've lost many friendships with that method. you could also just hang around some new people for a while. make a few new friends...but don't get rid of the old friends. friendship lasts a lifetime. don't let this destroy it. ask her if JUST YOU and HER can do something for a day, like see a movie or have a sleep over party. she's in this kind of stage of her relationship with her boyfriend.... ......she constantly with him, talkin about him, doing stuff with him, etc,. try not to think about it so much. have faith. maybe even confront her boyfriend about the situation. hey, it could work. she might even say stuff like, 'you're just jealous,' or 'i need my own time,' when you try to talk to her. explain it to her. tell her your real feelings. let it all out. CONFESS!!!! yes it will be hard, but i'm here to cheer you on!!!!! we all are!!!! you'll always have someone to count on her and lift your spirits. hang in there!! oh, and i'll think of some more ideas......but i'll get back with you later......BYERS for now!!!!

 

[Florida_luvr924]

talk to her... tell her how you feel. i know what its like. i did this and it worked out 100%

 

[angel_of_music]

confront her about it and tell her what you are feeling

yea i agree, i do this when i have problems with my friends but we always sort it out.

 

[goofysk8]

talk the problem out with her if she ignores you or doesnt lisnen to you you should not be her friend for a wile so she will think and respect you alittle more,and if she does,but when you should be her friend for that pieiod,you have to find a new friend or be with your other friends more.
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