Melissa.. I work in video production.. maybe I can help. what's wrong with it? I know you said you feel like parts aren't edited at all? I'm curious as to how bad it really is. I know you live in FL - not sure where, but if you want I'd love to give you some advice if I can see it. also, if you have the raw footage or will get it, what format is it in? If it's in mini dv something other than dvd, I could probably help you edit it better or change out your music. Let me know if you want some help.
I feel terrible for you. Working in video, it's difficult sometimes to see some of the work that's out there. During my wedding, I wanted so bad to hire a videographer (instead of having my coworkers shoot it) because I wanted them to enjoy the wedding. they ended up shooting it because I honestly couldn't find anyone out there who could do the work I think was worthy of the money they ask for. That's just me though because I'm a video snob

But seriously, if you need some help, I'll try to do the best I can to give you an honest opinion from someone who works in this business.