I had a fight w/ my best friend! :(

[DisneyGirl421]

Yesterday, I was talking to one of my best friends, telling him that this one girl(nicole) has changed him for the bad. He is always hanging out with her and never has time for me ne more. I had asked him to go to the mall w/ me & my other friend Alicia and he said no b/c he might be going to the boardwalk w/ Nicole. Me & Alicia then told him that if nicole hadnt been hogging his time, he could still hang out with us and all he needed to do was realize what she was doing. He took it the wrong way, thinking that we hate him now, and that is DEF not the case. I tried reasoning with him, saying that I dont want to lose our friendship over this stupid arguement, but he ignorned me the rest of the day. Then at the mall w/ Alicia, I called him on my cell, and his mom said he had been lying on the couch for the past hour and he was alseep. So it turned out he DIDN'T even go to the boardwalk. He hasnt been online and wont return my phone calls.
What should I do? I have been friends with him for a long time, and he even lives around the block from me. Normally, I would just go for a bike ride and go to his house to try to talk to him, but It's raining! I don't know what to do! Help me!

 

[Kiki]

maybe you should go over to his house even though it's raining, and be like yo. I came all the way over to your house even though it's raining, and now you have to be my friend again!

 

[WDWfanatic288]

yeah go to his house


okie..observation!
what is it with girls named Nicole
(not awesome Nicole on here...but I call her Cole so she doesn't count anyway)

 

[AbErGrl217]

yup I would go to his house. Maybe his plans fell through and he didnt feel like calling you because he already told you he couldnt..ya never know.

 

[TiggerBelle05]

awww! sweetie im sorry! basically just try and talk to him not matter what the weather is like, itll show iniciative

 

[grumpy101]

I had a fight with 2 of my best friends before I went to camp I diden't like haveing both my best friends mad at me but when I came back from camp 1 of my friends forgave me and my other friend who is now a Senior in High school still won't forgive me I'm tring to get her to forgive me but she won't take my apology from me I know how it feels to have a fight with ur best friend it doesen't feel so good if anybody has anything sugeggstions send me a personal message please.

 

[sleepy44]

oh i'm sorry about your fight i'd go to his house and try to talk to him and say you think i'd come over in the rain not to appoligize and say i really want to be friends with u again and i didn't mean you to take it that way i ment you never want to hang out with me anymore and it was like u didn't want to be friends with me anymore hope it helps and u be friends again and sorry if it's late

 

[grumpy101]

I think u should go over to his house I had a fight with my friend too 1 of them is still not talking to I relly want to be her friend again I need advice on how to get her back.

 

[SDAngel101]

wow getting in fights with my friends over another friend is the worst. Sometimes just giving him a little space will do you more good then calling him 24/7. Maybe he will realize that he took what you said the wrong way, and he will come back to you.

 

[grumpy101]

I need more advice on how to get back together with my Senior Friend me andher had a fight she won't except my apology How can I get her to be my friend again advice send me a private message.

 

[DisneyGirl421]

thanks guys for the suggestions.... I did go over to his house, but suprise! His mom said he was out w/ Nicole! He hasn;t been online all day and I need to talk to him b4 school starts on wed. I Don't Know What To DO!!!

 

[grumpy101]

If going over to his house diden't work try writing him a letter hey if u have any advice for me about me and my friend fighting she won't talk to me or except my apology if anybody has advice for me send me a private message.

 

[Princess Ash]

*Hugs* I'm so sorry u had a fight, and I agree with everyone else...go to his house. It'll show how much u really care! Keep on trying to work it out, cuz u won't regret it in hte future. You'll know you did the right thing. If he still isn't responsive, then maybe he was never a true friend anyways! Keep us posted!

 

[grumpy101]

Hope everything went alright with ur friend

 

[DiSnEyGrL13]

I am soo sorry that you had a fight with your best friend...I know how much that hurts. I agree with everyone else that you should go to his house and just try and smooth things over with him.

Jules...Thank you very much for establishing the fact that I am not a mean person like the other Nicoles that we all love to hate!