I gotta stop having love complications

[Ali Gator]

I really do need to stop this but ahh I like my best guy friend and man I need to stop tormenting myself...It hurts so much tho ya kno? "Good things will come with a little time, when you believe"..Should I listen to this?

Well...blah

Ali

 

[AbErGrl217]

I hate when that happends. I am sure you will meet someone good soon. Remember good things come to those people who wait!!

 

[daughter_of_amid_chaos]

Been there...done that...it sucks

 

[WDWfanatic288]

have done it

i dunno, i think everyone goes thru it b/c you are close and you find what you want in him

have you tried to talk to him about it yet?

 

[Ali Gator]

I can't bring myself to tell him because of the friendship lol, that means so much to me, I can't tell him....I'm so loud and outgoing but when it comes to something like this I get so shy

Ali

 

[Ali Gator]

I can't bring myself to tell him because of the friendship lol, that means so much to me, I can't tell him....I'm so loud and outgoing but when it comes to something like this I get so shy

Ali

 

[SDAngel101]

that is exactly like me Ali.

 

[Ali Gator]

Maggie why are we like that lol! I should just call him up and tell him but nooo of course theres always the chance he wont say anything and there will be that erie silence...sometimes it sucks being a teenage girl...than again i wouldnt want to be a teenage guy but still ya get it right haha

Ali

 

[WDWfanatic288]

just suck it up one day and go up to him and be like-I need to tell you something and just say it, you will feel better and he will have to answer b/c you are right there...i promise he will say something

 

[sprnklnormngrl]

this exact same thing happened to me...well sorta.... i liked this guy for a while and i thought i would have no chance on earth with him... so about 2 weeks ago i just walk up 2 him and im like ya know what i like u.... and ya know what?!?! he said he liked me back! hehe i was so surprised ...but now we're like going out and stuff and my parents love him so thats always a plus... but my advice is to just go 4 it... ya never know what will happen

 

[BluesTravlr00]

I'm a guy, and this is my advice: TELL HIM. I can't tell you how many times in the past I used to wish girls would tell me how they felt. I'm not saying the results will be good ALL the time, but probably like 90% of the time he will be like "ok let's go out sometime."

There's a general rule for guy-girl friendships, from the guy's perspective. Guys always want more than just a friendship, unless they already have something better looking. Aren't we pathetic? haha...

I'm lucky enough to have the most beautiful girlfriend in the world, so I can have all the girl - friends I want!

~CW

 

[Poohbear14]

Okay guys---- Today one of my best friends told my crush that i liked him !! This happened after i already swore her to secrecy ! I feel so betrayed.

He comes up to me on the bus and goes " so I heard something from your one of your best friends today, it was pretty obvious though." Then he changed the subject.

What does he mean by that ???

 

[BluesTravlr00]

Here I go again with more advice... Since I've already given some today, I might as well not stop now! Take this from a slightly older, wiser person who has been through high school and had a couple years to look back and understand how things work.

1. If you REALLY don't want anyone to know a secret, don't tell a single person; not even your BEST friend. As soon as you tell someone else your secret, you can be sure it won't be a secret long. If you really need to tell someone something, tell your mom.

2. Poohbear, the guy that said that to you is probably interested in you too. If he didn't like you, he would probably avoid you once he found that out. Thats what I would have done at least... Since he came and said something to you, try saying something back to him.

Best of luck to you and all the rest of the shy girls.

~CW