I Got It Bad...

[♥Ariel♥]

So all of last school year except the last two months i was totally crushing on this guy...lets say his name is David...well i finally got over him realizing we had never actually talked cause we sat on opisite sides of the room and i could never find anything in common from little i know about him. i am thinking of adding him as a facebook friend but if i do i want to facebook chat with him and idk what to say!!!!!!!! anyway i see him like every week every other week just at diffent things....the store, church, just riding bikes past each other and stuff and i like him again. i dont like myslef very much at the moment.. ahha so any advice?

 

[WDW Girl]

just go for it lol! all he can say no .. and then youll know! xD.

 

[Pancakes]

It's just a facebook request. I pretty much always accept the person even if I never talk to them at school.

 

[MickeyisBeast]

Do it. What's the worst that can happen? He'll say no? Just go for it, there's nothing to worry about.

 

[BabyPiglet]

Why don't you try working on your self-esteem first? I think everyone should try to love themselves before they try to get into a relationship, as cliche as that sounds.

 

[ThePin Princess]

i think you should add him then just say hi on chat or his wall or in a message

 

[PigletGurl]

advice: stop making so many threads.

 

[life of the party]

Why don't you try working on your self-esteem first? I think everyone should try to love themselves before they try to get into a relationship, as cliche as that sounds.

i agree 100% .
you have to love yourself before you can love someone else.
because if you dont love yourself , you use the other person to fill that space you have.
i had a sittuation where i had super low self esteem & my guy didnt make me feel too great so i worked so hard to be his idea of perfect . well i'm kind of still in this sittuation but its getting better kind of . i really lost myself for awhile .

 

[sexymickey]

I Add Peopple On FaceBook That I Have Never EVER Spoken To, I Just No That They Go To My School! Lol

 

[bananda]

Why don't you try working on your self-esteem first? I think everyone should try to love themselves before they try to get into a relationship, as cliche as that sounds.

i agree. its usually easier to love people who love themselves. also, the higher your self-esteem, the less likely you are to base your worth on what other people think of you.

my advice would be to get to know him as a friend first, so you can see if you are well suited.

 

[LUCiD]

Just tell him, even if he does say no, it's not the end of the world. There are always plenty of good fish in the sea.
Also you really should work on your self-esteem like others have said. You seem like a very nice person, if he says no, he's missing out on a very nice person and it's his loss, not yours. (And try being friends first like bananda said, that's what I did when I used to date and we got along just fine.)

 

[empiretink33]

??? you dont seem like the kind of person who has low self esteem with all your threads XD i have seen a few of your posts and threads and lets just say im kinda surprised lol
anyways you should go for it the worst he can say is no and even so if he does the world wont end theres alot of other people out there XD
good luck!

 

[disneyworldluvr349]

Go for it