JulielovesDisney
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I think I'm losing one of my best friends. 
I have known my best friend Jessie since 2nd grade, but we became really close in 5th grade. We've been best friends since then. I tell her everything and she's always there to listen when I need her to and she can always cheer me up.
So then, last year, she got this boyfriend who's a total jerk to her, so we kinda drifted apart a little. I mean, it is natural when you get a boyfriend to spend more time with him than your friends. And me and my other BFF Jackie understood that, and we gave her space. But then things got really ugly between Jackie and I and Rob. So we never hung out with Jessie when she was with Rob because things just didn't end well that way.
So then college decisions come around, and Jessie decides to stay at home and go to a county college for free for 2 years, then transfer somewhere else. Both Jackie and I went away to school.
Fast forward a little to the summer. Jessie worked at a boardwalk at a beach for the entire summer. It's about a 2 hour drive from home, so I didn't really see her a lot. We still talked and I tried to visit her as much as possible, but schedules kept getting in the way. So we started drifting a little more apart.
Now, present day, whenever I come home for a weekend, I ALWAYS tell her and see if she wants to hang out. Either go out to lunch, go to a movie, have a movie night at my house, anything so we can talk and hang out. When I mention that I'll be home, she seems excited. But when I ask if she's doing anything, she gets really vague. She'll say stuff like, "I don't know. I'll have to see what's going on." So, she's fully aware that I'll be home that weekend. So then when the time comes, and I ask if she's doing anything AGAIN (because she won't mention it again) she'll suddenly say, "Oh, well Rob and I made plans already."
WHAT??? But you knew I was coming home! And the day before, you were saying how much you miss me and Jackie.
That hurts so much! It's like she doesn't wanna see me when I'm home. And this has happened every single time I've been home. I've hung out with her...twice...out of the 5+ times I've been home since school started.
Her friendship means so much to me. And I really don't want it to end, but it looks like it's going to. I don't know how to cope with it.
I just send her a message on Facebook about it, just telling her how I feel. I honestly don't know what else to do.
I have known my best friend Jessie since 2nd grade, but we became really close in 5th grade. We've been best friends since then. I tell her everything and she's always there to listen when I need her to and she can always cheer me up.
So then, last year, she got this boyfriend who's a total jerk to her, so we kinda drifted apart a little. I mean, it is natural when you get a boyfriend to spend more time with him than your friends. And me and my other BFF Jackie understood that, and we gave her space. But then things got really ugly between Jackie and I and Rob. So we never hung out with Jessie when she was with Rob because things just didn't end well that way.
So then college decisions come around, and Jessie decides to stay at home and go to a county college for free for 2 years, then transfer somewhere else. Both Jackie and I went away to school.
Fast forward a little to the summer. Jessie worked at a boardwalk at a beach for the entire summer. It's about a 2 hour drive from home, so I didn't really see her a lot. We still talked and I tried to visit her as much as possible, but schedules kept getting in the way. So we started drifting a little more apart.
Now, present day, whenever I come home for a weekend, I ALWAYS tell her and see if she wants to hang out. Either go out to lunch, go to a movie, have a movie night at my house, anything so we can talk and hang out. When I mention that I'll be home, she seems excited. But when I ask if she's doing anything, she gets really vague. She'll say stuff like, "I don't know. I'll have to see what's going on." So, she's fully aware that I'll be home that weekend. So then when the time comes, and I ask if she's doing anything AGAIN (because she won't mention it again) she'll suddenly say, "Oh, well Rob and I made plans already."
WHAT??? But you knew I was coming home! And the day before, you were saying how much you miss me and Jackie.
That hurts so much! It's like she doesn't wanna see me when I'm home. And this has happened every single time I've been home. I've hung out with her...twice...out of the 5+ times I've been home since school started.
Her friendship means so much to me. And I really don't want it to end, but it looks like it's going to. I don't know how to cope with it.
I just send her a message on Facebook about it, just telling her how I feel. I honestly don't know what else to do.
