i dont know what happened... advice please?

[dancer4life22]

hey so ive noticed a lot of people venting and want to give it a shot.

so in 8th grade is switched to a new school and became best friends with this one group of s. im serious there were like 10 of us who did everything together! well in high school a few of them went to different schools one moved out of state one got annoying and kinda drifted away and the other ditched us and became a . so then it was me and 3 other friends. all through ninth grade we were fine and did everything together and were always together and everyone knew how close we were. now were sophomores. at the beginning of sophomore yera it was fine, just like normal. but then i started to feel left out. like something was going on without me. they were always talking and i didnt know what about and then i would ask and they would just say "o nothing" i felt like they were keeping secrets. well then one day i found out they went to see fame on opening night. i wasnt invited when we had talked about going when the commercials started showing. i didnt get why i wasnt invited but just ignored it. then i started hearing about sleepovers and them hanging out on fridays and i wasnt invited. every once in a while i was like tshirt making for spirit week, and they cam over a few times. for homecoming one of them couldnt go but the rest of us got ready together. then i found out that afterward they had a sleepover and just dropped me off at my house first so i wouldnt know. well now i just found out theres a surprise bday party for one of our friends. supposedly ther having it... i wasnt invited...

what do i do? i feel like i have no friends right now... and the worst part is we were supposed to hang out at my house on halloween. if they dont want to i might be spending it alone.

thanks for the help!

 

[MickeyisBeast]

I feel that way sometimes with my 2 best friends. But I just realize, I hang out with one of them sometimes and not the other, and they might feel left out too.

I think if ur friends are purposly trying to make you feel left out, get new friends. But first, talk to them about it. Start planning sleepovers with just ONE of them at a time.

 

[dancer4life22]

I feel that way sometimes with my 2 best friends. But I just realize, I hang out with one of them sometimes and not the other, and they might feel left out too.

I think if ur friends are purposly trying to make you feel left out, get new friends. But first, talk to them about it. Start planning sleepovers with just ONE of them at a time.

well thats what i figured at first but it was the party. like why wouldnt they invite me? i wouldnt care if they were just going to our friends party and they didnt plan it. its the fact that they planned it that made me upset...

 

[DISKATER69]

I say screw them. I had that problem when I was in fifth grade. The guy's that I'd been hanging out with since kindergarten and a few of them from pre-school, decided they were just going to ignore me. I've found new friends now that always ask me to come hang out with them. Only one of them go to my school, and the others all go to public school. We all love skateboarding, so maybe what you should do is just start talking to people who you notice like the same things and just have a conversation about that stuff. Hope things work out for you.

 

[ashisdancin2]

ehhh. that happened to me last year. i even took one of them to wdw with me. but after halloween they all went off on their own making secret plans without me. so as soon as we got back to school i made new friends. it took a while though. but now i have a ton of really good friends and im just fine without them. their loss! D