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I had a class in NYC, an expensive class that I've been saving up to go to for a long time. I took the bus from my usual college to the train station, and then got on the train. The conductor said I wasn't allowed, and that my dog wasn't a service dog because we tripped up the stairs. The stairs are nearly as tall as her, and I'm just generally clumsy. She's an alert dog, not mobility. The guy told me to get off the train, and I said no and told him service dogs are allowed and she's my service dog. He said I had to get off the train or he's call the cops. So I called the cops for him (I've found it helps to call and tell them up front it's a service animal so they don't come under the impression it's a stupid kid with a dog.) Cops came and said I need a disability card. huh? I said I don't and pulled a copy of the ADA service dog rules out of my pocket (lucky break having that, I'd only printed it to show my friend a cute picture on the page!!). He said I needed the card because the TRAIN COMPANY said so and they get to make the rules. I don't have said card, and at this point I was starting to panic, and my SD was tugging to get me to go sit down. Then the cop said that I wasn't allowed on the train at all, even to get my things. The train guy brought my stuff to me, but I have a big hangup about people touching my stuff. Then the train left. I didn't get to go to class (it was the last one and we were sequencing DNA!!! GRRRR!!!). I had a complete panic attack,my SD dragged me over to sit down and put her feet on my shoulders (it's what she's supposed to do, it calms me down). I was trying to stop hyperventalating and breathe, but the cop kept talking and wouldn't go away and then threatened to call and ambulance and I told him I was fine, and I had my mom get me, but the cop like sat in his car staring at me until mom came.
Then that night I was still upset and was crying so my SD tried to calm me down, failed and went and woke up my parents. It took them like an hour to calm me down enough that it was safe for me to be alone, but I didn't sleep and now I've got chem class, which I've got to take the bus to and I'm terrified the same thing will happen again on the bus. I wasn't scared before because in the past if I've ever had to call the cops, the cops knew what the ADA is and didn't think that some train company gets to ignore laws. Except now apparently cops do not know.
My mom is getting a lawyer, and she's sueing the train people. Which is odd. We've tried like everything, so I dunno... seems like the only option really. I can't drive, I need trains and buses to get around.
Anyone have any advice or support? I could really use it.
Then that night I was still upset and was crying so my SD tried to calm me down, failed and went and woke up my parents. It took them like an hour to calm me down enough that it was safe for me to be alone, but I didn't sleep and now I've got chem class, which I've got to take the bus to and I'm terrified the same thing will happen again on the bus. I wasn't scared before because in the past if I've ever had to call the cops, the cops knew what the ADA is and didn't think that some train company gets to ignore laws. Except now apparently cops do not know.
My mom is getting a lawyer, and she's sueing the train people. Which is odd. We've tried like everything, so I dunno... seems like the only option really. I can't drive, I need trains and buses to get around.
Anyone have any advice or support? I could really use it.