I could Use some Prayers Please. Update pg 8

[Aimee K]

Continued prayers Sherry.

 

[powellrj]

I have thought about you and your family often. Please know that you have been in my prayers.

 

[AuntRoeRoe]

Prayers and to you. I am so sorry for your loss.

 

[Lorix2]

You have done everything right, I am so so sorry for you're pain and suffering, I wish you peace and comfort and God Bless you're daughter.

 

[4nana]

Sherry dear ((big hugs)), I am so very very sorry for your loss . I can't being to imagine the pain and suffering of losing a dear child . Please realize that many hearts and prayers are with you honey, as you struggle through this most difficult time in your life, facing one day at a time. Rest assured that no one is questioning you or your actions. We all pray that in time, counseling and your faith will bring you and your son healing, peace and hope for the future. God Bless and may the precious memories of your little angel, Macy, help guide you in all your days.

 

[mickeyboat]

Sherry.

Denae

 

[chell]

Sherry I can't even begin to imagine how you feel and the hell you must be going through. Hope you can find comfort and strength in knowing we are all praying for you. There are these things that happen in life that leave us standing there scratching our heads asking why and the worst part about those events is that we can't go back and change it. I know it isn't easy facing each new day after loosing someone that you love but you have to keep going and you have to take care of yourself. You know that your daughter wouldn't want you to be so down. I bet she would want for you to find happiness again and carry on her memory and share it with others in a bright way. Does that make any sense at all? It is supposed to make you feel better.

I haven't read the entire thread but are you getting any counselling? If not, call your local Hospice office. They offer wonderful grief counseling. They have one-on-one and group counseling available at no cost to you. The people there are wonderful.

Know that you are still in my thoughts and prayers and if I can do anything at all for you please ask.

 

[Miss Jasmine]

Sherry, you are a strong and amazing woman. You have been in my prayers ever since I heard of what happened. Reading your posts in this thread have me crying once again. I pray for peace for you. You made the right decision.

 

[Mike.Wazowski]

my thoughts and prayers continue to be with you...

 

[catherine]

Sherry I am so very sorry for your loss I will keep you and your son in my thoughts and prayers.

 

[Octoberbeauty]

Thank you so much everyone. You have touched my heart and you have made me feel a little better. I'll let you know how counseling goes tonight.
Hugs!!

 

[L107ANGEL]

Thank you so much everyone. You have touched my heart and you have made me feel a little better. I'll let you know how counseling goes tonight.
Hugs!!

 

[luckywife]

So very sorry for the loss of your daughter. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time

 

[princesspumpkin]

Trust in the Lord with all thine heart
And lean not unto thine own understanding
In all thy ways acknowledge Him
And He shall direct thy path

There's a Blessing on the other side of Through

 

[ChrisnSteph]

Sherry, I am very, very sorry for the loss of your little girl. I've lost two of my own children, so I can understand the anger, sadness and all the other feelings you are going through. Like you said, and I know it sounds so cliche, but God has a plan, and somehow this is all part of it. It makes no sense now, but someday it will. Take comfort in knowing that you WILL see Jamey again someday, and that she's watching over you now. Take comfort in your son - he needs you now more than ever. Maybe you can find a grief support group in your area? I didn't want to even thinking about joing a group when I was grieving for my son, but when I finally joined one I was glad that I did. If you need help finding one in your area, I'd be glad to help. I don't know if you've seen this or not, but it's a poem I'd like to share with you. I hope that you can find some comfort in the words:

The Broken Chain

We little knew that morning that
God was going to call your name.
In life we loved you dearly.
In death we do the same.

It broke our hearts to lose you.
You did not go alone,
for part of us went with you
the day God called you home.

You left us peaceful memories.
Your love is still our guide.
And though we cannot see you,
you are always at our side.

Our family chain is broken
and nothing seems the same,
but as God calls us one by one,
the Chain will link again.

 

[Trish Bessette]

Sherry - You are in my prayers. The feelings you are feeling are normal. Please know that I care very deeply for you and your family. You are a brave person and I admire how you are handing the situation you are in. Take care of your son and give him a hug from all of us here on the DIS. Have comfort in the fact that your beautiful angel is watching over you at all times. God bless you and thank you for checking in with us. I wish only the very best for you.

 

[Am_I_There_Yet]

Bless your heart. I don't know the whole story, but can only imagine the pain you must be in.

You'll be in my thoughts and prayers too.

 

[Rajah]

I am so sorry. My heart breaks for you, and I can't imagine what you're going through. You're still in my prayers and thoughts.

 

[LoveMyDVC2]

Sherry, please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. I don't think there isn't anything that anyone can say to you to make you feel that there is any sense in what happen or why God needed your daughter. I truly believe that our loved ones never "leave" us. Your darling daughter is always with you. You may even "feel" it at times. They say time heals, so I hope that in time you will heal. I once heard someone say that "normal life" will never be the same. That it is about finding a new "normal".

On a positive note (I know it is hard to think positive) You were able to have your darling daughter for many years. You have all the wonderful memories, and you are the person you are, because of loving,knowing and having her in your life. Please take comfort in knowing, that you have another angel looking over you!!! Please remember that yoor son need you to be strong. (even if it is hard)

I can only imagine the pain in your heart , but I will pray for you to have the strength to find a new "normal"

Take Care!!!

 

[Octoberbeauty]

Update on counseling.

We went to our first grief support group meeting last night and it went really well. I think that I will find some help in dealing and coping through this.

My emotions are just all over the place right now, but that's to be expected.

Thank you so much for all your support, encouragement and prayers.

Sherry

(We love you, our precious Macy. You will always be in our hearts and one day we'll be together again.)