I cant take it anymore

[NeverlandClub23]

It's a message board full of strangers.

I learned not to let things said here bother me. I got my feelings hurt a couple of times and then stopped, thought about it and realized I don't even KNOW any of these people and THEY don't know ME either!! So who really cares about their opinion anyway?!

I agree

 

[DISUNC]

CHILL!

You are not officially a

until you are a 47 year old man waiting outside the Wal*Mart ladies room, holding your Mothers Pocketbook & the new Bras she is buying...AND your HS nemisis from 30 years ago comes walking right by you at that moment!


...and that TRUE story happened to my friend Louie!

 

[Philagoofy]

Nope, I never log off. Maybe if I am not on the DIS, it shows me as logged off .

I've wondered about this too. I don't log off but when I come back on, especially at work (on breaks of course, so many, many breaks) I never have to log on & wonder if my lights on when I'm not on the Internet.

So now, I think I can answer your question & mine, as of now, your little dot is not green, it's grey. I guess the light does go off even if you are still logged on.

 

[Lanshark]

CHILL!

You are not officially a

until you are a 47 year old man waiting outside the Wal*Mart ladies room, holding your Mothers Pocketbook & the new Bras she is buying...AND your HS nemisis from 30 years ago comes walking right by you at that moment!


...and that TRUE story happened to my friend Louie!

 

[LadyBears]

Im starting to feel just about everybody here hates me,

OK, I don't know what you are referring to THIS time.... Didn't you just say this same thing (& a lot more) in February when one of your tags was removed?? Perhaps you should take some time away from here to clear your head of things that strangers on a public message board might be posting to you?? It seems you are looking for attention, but you are looking for negative instead of postive attention. As long as you are happy in real life - don't worry about the words that are here in cyberspace.....

 

[Mad4Mickey]

Dont take stuff you see on here to heart. I mean maybe you should do a search on me and see my Welfare Rant thread . That turned in to a week long event LOL and all I said was what I thought about a lady i saw doing what I thought was a mis use of her funds.
CHILD THEY TORE ME UP on there , and then when I posted something else the same people who ripped me were kind and told me what they thought. Everyone says things they wouldnt dare say to your face on here .

I also had a a few people who PM ed me and told me they were sorry if they seemed nasty they didnt mean it that way .

As my Grandma used to say " the best part about falling down is getting back up again " At least that is as close as I could get while converting it from Italian to English LOL

BTW I saw nothing wrong with how you looked : ) Dont be silly you are fine .....

 

[HeatherPage]

I'm 34 and about to go on about the 5th trip to Disney with husband, son and my parents, nothing wrong with that. You're a pretty girl, don't let anyone tell you otherwise. Maybe the OP is still reading because she is curious as to what people are saying or hopefully it's making her feel better reading the positive posts to her, not the smart-*** posts basically saying "so go already".

 

[Planogirl]

I don't understand why you let what other people say get to you so much. If you really think about it, what they think doesn't matter at all. What truly matters is only what you and those close to you think. If you learn to be comfortable with yourself then others will respect you. It's really true.

As for being seen with a parent, things could be worse. You could be a high school teen seen with a parent. Seriously, go and have a good time.

 

[Aisling]

The OP's been online since posting her farewell at 8:26 am...if there's a record for the world's longest YAGE, this one's got to be a contender! What's the deal? This thread's simply not passing the smell test anymore...

Gee, you must not be too smart if this has you .

Maybe the OP is still reading because she is curious as to what people are saying

HeatherPage, thanks for explaining to the one who smells threads.

BTW, Laughie, if you still don't understand what "the deal" is, PM me and I'll be happy to explain it to you further.

 

[debden]

OP:I can hear them now"look at that loser she goes to WDW with her mom"

Well OP all I can say is your lucky to have a mom you want to be with! The only thing I would like to do with my mom is put her on a slow boat to China.
Debbie

 

[Laugh O. Grams]

Gee, you must not be too smart if this has you .



HeatherPage, thanks for explaining to the one who smells threads.

BTW, Laughie, if you still don't understand what "the deal" is, PM me and I'll be happy to explain it to you further.

You are a panic!

Incoming...

 

[PamNC]

First off, you are certainly a beautiful girl. If anyone teased you about how you look it is because they were jealous and stupid. 'nuff said.

I agree that you shouldn't let a load of complete strangers make you feel bad about yourself. Most of the people on these boards are wonderful and it's a great community. Let me tell you what happened to me. I found out that my favorite attraction, the Haunted Mansion, would be closed this summer during my trip. I was upset to say the least. I posted a thread entitled "Distraught over the Haunted Mansion." You wouldn't believe some of the posts - people threw up cancer and homeless people in my face bascially saying they would hate for anything really bad to to happen to me. At first it really upset me, but then I got PM's from people (again, complete strangers) supporting me. It was unbelievable. I almost took a break from the boards but then I thought about it and I thoroughly enjoy these boards and have for about 9 years. I'm not letting "kooks" run me off. People will take offense to anything these days so no matter what you post, eventually someone is going to flame you.

If you need a break, that's fine and a good decision. But, why not hold your head up high and enjoy the DIS boards and not let other people, especially complete strangers, run you off or make you feel bad about yourself.

Whatever is going on in your life is none of our business, but I for one wish you the best. a little pixie dust for you:

PamNC

 

[MUFFYCAT]

CHILL!

You are not officially a

until you are a 47 year old man waiting outside the Wal*Mart ladies room, holding your Mothers Pocketbook & the new Bras she is buying...AND your HS nemisis from 30 years ago comes walking right by you at that moment!


...and that TRUE story happened to my friend Louie!

 

[powellrj]

CHILL!

You are not officially a

until you are a 47 year old man waiting outside the Wal*Mart ladies room, holding your Mothers Pocketbook & the new Bras she is buying...AND your HS nemisis from 30 years ago comes walking right by you at that moment!


...and that TRUE story happened to my friend Louie!

I LOVE your story. Now all you need to do is change the word bra to Brassiere and it would just complete the story!!! When ever I hear the word pocketbook for some reason I always think of the word Brassiere!! I think its because my DGM was the only person I ever knew to use the word pocketbook and also use the word Brassiere!!

Sorry a little off topic this am. I'm sorry you got hurt OP, today is a new day and I hope things are better!

 

[TCPluto]

The OP's been online since posting her farewell at 8:26 am...if there's a record for the world's longest YAGE, this one's got to be a contender! What's the deal? This thread's simply not passing the smell test anymore...

This is uncalled for and, I think, the type of stuff the OP is talking about.

She seems like a nice kid, why not stop stalking her online activity and try not being so cruel?

 

[TCPluto]

Yeah, but I thought after the last round of DISboards upgrades, you're automatically kicked out after a short time of inactivity...something like, 15 minutes. Happens to me all the time...

Maybe it's a subtle cue?

 

[MoniqueU]

What I really love most about the Disboards is there are sooooo many oppurtunities to say WOW!!!!!!

 

[djm99]

Also, message boards give normally meek people the anonimity to say things they normally wouldn't. It is much easier to be snarky with someone when you don't have to face them.

That's being nice, I'd like to them cyber punks and bullies. They were the ones always being picked on them selves. So they hid confidently behind their computers nitpicking on posters. I laugh at those poor lonely souls. You should too. NOTHING on these boards should be taken that seriously. At times these boards (particularly in the community board) it can get a little vicious. My advice, stay out of the more controversial threads (talks about mugs, 5 in a room in Values, 3 year olds getting in free, and any that discusses religion and politics) and you’d be okay. These boards are a lot of fun; you just have to be careful about which boards you reply in. Also, if you see a thread moving in a direction that you don’t like, don’t respond. Or do what I do, annoy the heck of them, keep posting smilies - and laugh at their anger. Its reallllllly funny to 'watch' anger message posters.

 

[Microcell]

Sorry you feel that way. I don't come to the CB that much anymore because it is really rampant here. I am only here because I had a non disney question, and for the most part, people are helpful.

You really gotta ask youself why you care at all what a bunch of strangers on a computer message board think about you. I wish my mom was alive that we could go to WDW together (though she wouldn't go). We all have our stories, and our sadness. Feeling picked on by people on a mesage board is not anything I would give much thought to if I were you.

My favorite line ever in a movie- As Good as it Gets

Carol: OK, we all have these terrible stories to get over, and you---

Melvin: It's not true. Some have great stories, pretty stories that take place at lakes with boats and friends and noodle salad. Just no one in this car. But, a lot of people, that's their story. Good times, noodle salad. What makes it so hard is not that you had it bad, but that you're that pissed that so many others had it good.


Make it good!

 

[Linnie The Pooh]

Sometimes I get a little sensitive too, but if you need a break then I say do it. I do that from time to time.

I think people teased you about how you looked because they were jealous-kids do that. I don't know why someone wouldn't want to look like you. You're beautiful and you have an awesome smile! People teased me a lot too, but I got the last laugh....Story for another time....

My 41 year old brother collects toys too-he has TONS of them, but nothing as cool as the Yoda!!

I would love for my mom to go to WDW with me. She's way too busy though. I almost typed 'bushy' instead of 'busy' by mistake! Oops. Glad I caught that!

You should do a Trip Report. We have one going-the people over on that board are really nice! My DH gets a little jokey at times, but it's all in good fun. The people I've met over there are great fun!

Today is Mother's Day-relax and enjoy your mom! And just be yourself-that's all we can be and that is enough! Don't let others get you down!!