I can definitely relate to the teenager dilemma. My 16-year old would rather go somewhere else, but my DD 14 is still excited to go to WDW. We skipped last year and so I'm looking forward to going back this summer. I think we'll divide our time between complete relaxation (pool, renting water sprites, a leisurely brunch) and commando days. I find it's hard to visit the parks in a relaxed way in the summer, due to heat and crowds, but if we only do the parks part of the time, we can devote the rest to hanging out and doing very little.
Take a year off and you'll probably be ready to return.
Take a year off and you'll probably be ready to return.