How would you schedule/which ADRs to keep?

[woodynjessiesmomma]

If I could get an Akershus breakfast on 10/19 all this would be easy, but by the time I was able to get through and book afternoon evening was all that was left. We are wanting to try new things and we have the DDP. Food at WDW is part of the experience for us. We are 2 adults, 8yo ODS, 4yo DD, and 2yo YDS, and early is better for us as in bedtime will likely be 8-9pm each night. Right now we have:
day 1: 8:40am Garden Grill Breakfast
3:00pm Akershus (there have also been dinners available but all after 8pm & that's too late for us)
My disappointment with the 3pm Akershus is I want to try food from the F&WF, otherwise this is ok.
day2: 1:20pm BOG lunch, been there before & we also like CHH, but otherwise no QS appeal to us here.
6:40pm 1900PF, we did the breakfast here before and enjoyed it, I booked this before I got the
3pm Akershus so DD could have something princess. We would have preferred Ohana's but that was
booked up for dinner, would the QS at Poly be a good dinner or keep 1900PF?
day 3: 8:10 H&V breakfast, also want to sign ODS up for JTA
1:40 Sci-Fi Theater (DH's main request), thinking this could be OOP and may just get milkshakes
or split meals.
Then we leave early afternoon on our HS day. I'm torn on what to keep or to keep it all. I feel like doing QS after MK would allow us more flexibility since the kids are often tired early, but we'd enjoy meeting the Step Sisters. I could go either way on Garden Grill...

Are these good options for people who like food and characters? Any other suggestions?