Yup...that's the way life goes for me too! I am on all mailing lists, have the Disney Visa, and request the planning DVD almost every year just to watch. I have also been 5 times. Never received a pin either. I would love to get one for next year. We just got back a few weeks ago. Spent 10 days at the Beach Club and there was literally a monsoon....rained every day, 16 inches in 5 days. Wouldn't it have been nice to get an invite back at a discount just because of the weather??? Of course, I wasn't expecting it but...would have been great!