Never mind...I guess no one wanted to respond. I thought that this was a place to come for support and advice. 41 people read my question, but no one took the time to respond.
There are a lot of lurkers on disboards, you just have to get used to it. Either that or the counter is messed up..I don't know, I never really believed those anyway.
Sorry that you feel disappointed. I do WISH you all the best for whatever it is you are seeking. Many do lurk and find answers once a question is posed. Posing questions help as much as receiving answers.