Personally, I think that $100 is extremely generous.
In the past, we've gotten DS one of those twirly light toys, a balloon, a t-shirt or sweatshirt, and one toy (usually a med. stuffed character doll) on each trip -- so roughly $60. We also buy the occasional snack, but tend to pack a few snacks, juice boxes and candies with us too.
We don't stop in the stores at the parks -- we visit World of Disney at DTD toward the end of our trip. There's also a new store at DTD where everything is less than $10 -- maybe a good choice for kids who want to spend the last of their dough.
So, if you're looking for some place to trim your budget, I'd trim the kids' spending to $75. Let them know that they can keep any money they don't spend at WDW and you'll be helping them to prioritize their spending -- you may be shocked at how little a kid needs to spend at WDW if they can save the money for something they REALLY want back home, which may disappoint you somewhat, but is a great lesson in personal finance for the young!
Also, you mention $2000 spending money for the family. I'm assuming that includes all of your meal costs? If you're talking about $2000 for souvenirs and snacks, then that is much more than I budget. But I tend to be frugal. If you post with more information about what you plan to cover with "spending money", you may be able to get more advise about a good $$ amount.
One piece of advice that is off-topic from your original post: I highly recommend taking your kids to at least one Character Meal. It's such a treat and the kids get a kick eating while visiting with their favorite characters.
Enjoy your trip!