Hi
We went to the Toy Story tea party on 17th October and I booked it direct with Disney before we went. DD2 was 2 and we didn't have to pay for her. There was no problem when we handed in our tickets at the event, just said 2 adults, one child and one under 3.
Just to confirm, there are no savoury items now, just cakes, cookies, pastries, chocolate mousse, yogurt, sweets, lollies etc. There are plenty of hot and cold drinks which are also included.
We all have a sweet tooth so were quite happy to not have an evening meal that day, we certainly had no room for anything else afterwards LOL.
If there is anything else you want to know, just let me know.