Eh, I somehow doubt he could make twice as much as a civilian. My DH has 13 years in, a bachelors and almost a masters, we couldn't make twice even with that (and he has an aerospace degree) by the time we look at the healthcare costs, housing, utilities, pay, food etc etc. And yes, I know all the other stuff your talking about.
I do think my healthcare is better than most. I was diagnosed with cancer a little over a year ago. I am on Tricare Standard (opt to pay a little instead of taking everything for free to get seen on base or get referred out) and the most I can pay in a year is $1,000... for our WHOLE family. I got state of the art cancer treatments and bills that would have costed into the hundreds of thousands and I never even met my $1000 catastrophic cap. Get sick for real and you'll figure out how great your insurance is. Tricare was PAYING out $20,000/day of chemo... I don't even want to know what the co-share for most insurances are for that.
I also have spent the last year... one more year to go apart from my husband because he's stationed overseas in a job they need him for so can't come back (and I can't live there because I got sick). You really think because your husband is in the military your more entitled than others? Yes, our husbands make sacrifices I suppose, but for benefits that far exceed most work places. I know for a fact we have it better than most people and can say without a doubt we'd be screwed and filing bankruptcy if it wasn't for our medical insurance through the military. My husband missed the whole first year of our DD's life, will miss the second, and because chemo made my BC ineffective I'm pregnant AGAIN and he'll miss the first year of this childs life, I'm not complaining, you know this going into military life and you know the sacrifices.
Okay. Sorry so long winded. Just annoys me. People in this country are suffering bad because of inadequate and expensive healthcare. I will never understand complaining about the military and our FREE health care.