arielsleepingbeauty
I'm not bad, I'm just drawn that way.
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I feel bad because the past years I feel we set a precedence for them to get many gifts from us and Santa. Last year they got 8 gifts from Santa and 8 gifts from me. I have been hammering into their heads that Christmas is about being with family and friends. They haven't asked for much and I prepared them for the fact that mom can't get too much, their dad either and even Santa isn't. We watch Good morning American every morning so they hear how bad the economy is and it reinfoces all my discussions with them about how bad things really are. So this year I decided to team up with my ex and go halves on all the gifts. We are giving a total of eight gifts to each and I am not sure how many will be from Santa. Maybe one or two. I fell so cheap, but when it comes down to it, they don't even need anything.