In our home, Santa brings each person three gifts. If three gifts were enough for baby Jesus, it's enough for them too. That's not a judgement of how anybody else does it, it's simply how we have always explained the number of Christmas gifts under our tree Chrismas tree to our kids. Gifts from Santa are the only ones we open on Christmas morning. He also fills our stockings with candy and small gifts.
All of the other gifts our family exchanges are opened on Christmas Eve. Our pets buy the kids one gift to share (usually a board game or a
Lego set they all have interest in). Mom and Dad buy each child a gift (usually a combination gift of a toy/book/pajamas to wear to bed that night). Our children buy gifts for each other. They save up their own money to do this, so we don't limit them. The younger they are, the more cash we end up having to pitch in to help them...but in the case of us having to help, we only contribute up to about $10 per sibling. We want them to focus on the giving aspect, so we make a big deal about going out and searching for gifts with each of them that are just perfect for the others.
St. Nick does stop by on December 9th to pick up our Christmas lists (and get 'reports' from the Christmas reindeer *we have reindeer instead of elves on a shlef* on how the boys are doing naughty/nice wise). St. Nick (aka Santa) leaves each child with $20 and a favorite candy or other edible 'Christmasy' treat. We spend that money together on a family project for someone in need. We have adopted a family and purchased Christmas dinner for them. We have picked up a star from a tree at
Walmart. Another year we bought toys for the Toys for Tots drive. We have done the Operation Christmas Shoebox thing. We give the kids a list and they pick which one we should work on as a family.
Lastly, the three Magi stop by on the eve of Jan. 6 for Epiphany. They pick up a small budle of straw that we leave out for their camels and drop off a small religious gift for each child. Things like a Veggie Tales movie, a Bible coloring book, a prayer journal, etc. Although we take down our Christmas tree on New Year's Eve (usually) we leave out our nativity until the wiseman have come to visit us.
Sorry it took me so long to explain how we do gifts in our family...but we have lots of tradtion behind each gift that is given.
Hope that my ramblings somehow answered your question.
