We are planning a trip to Disneyland and San Diego. We will be there for 8 nights and I'm trying to decide between 5 nights at Disneyland and 3 nights in San Diego or do 4 at each. Our kids will be 12, 9 & 5 at the time of our trip. If we did 5 nights at Disneyland that would give us 3 full park days plus a swim day in between, yet I don't want to feel like we are cutting our time short in San Diego. Any suggestions?